Fetish-Furniture-Factory

Cuckolding – Ballbusting – HotWife – Bitch.

2012-02-11T19:30:00.001-08:00

Have very little to say today. Bored. Frisky. Not real motivated. I'm mostly just being a tease. An ass tease? An ass tease slut? Ass tease slut whore? :)

Cuckold Tease. Creating Oral Service Desires and Blueballs.

2012-02-08T22:05:00.000-08:00

I am a tease. I love it. I totally enjoy it and look forward to it. I’ve mentioned this before, and written about it, but one of my favorite ways is while out on a date, taking photos of me being busy with a lover and e-mailing them to my cuckold husband.

I do this for several reasons:

One, to show him that I am having a good time with a man who is superior to him. That is key, always reminding my little dicked cuckold of his status and place in my sex life.

Two, to remind him (as if he could forget) that I am out getting fucked by another man and that the moment I get back home, he is going to have several “duties” to tend to. One is I will probably have a sore pussy that’s going to need some TLC. The best way for him to provide that care is with his tongue. So he is reminded that I will be bringing home a well fucked pussy, his wifes pussy that was just pounded by another man. The other “job” he will have is to deal with a condom full of that lovers sperm. Nice and thick, almost chunky, except for when its creamy, pungent, sticky, thick and aromatic. The sperm shot out of another mans balls and into his wife. He is going to have to lick it up off of my body. Which brings us to the third point:

Three, I love oral sex. It took me quite a while to train my submissive husband to do it right. I need the right and correct pressure, at a certain tempo at just the right time to be able to orgasm. He also had to be trained to not fear or “run” from my pussy when I squirt. I squirt quite a lot. Initially he would back away from that unmistakable “fffssst” sound when I gush. He had to be taught to keep on licking, like a good little come sucking cuckold wimpy husband should.

While I am out on my date and sending along photos, his balls are getting full. He will usually have blueballs by the time I get home. He will be so horny, so excited that he will comply with whatever disgusting acts I request of him. Blueballs can be a girls best friend when you are training a submissive male.

This lover is mentioned in my book “Cuckold Letters” and I’m hoping to be seeing him again so he will be in “Part Two” when and if ever I get around to writing it. :)

Queening Chairs Facesitting Stools etc.

2012-02-06T19:37:00.001-08:00

Vanessa

It’s been a while since I’ve emailed you. It got to where I was about to explode just spending time corresponding so I had to quit. I really do enjoy your short movies. I’d like to know when you publish some more. It looks like you’re spending a great deal of time on your writing profession. While that’s great it just doesn’t do as much for me as your pictures and emails.

I’ve listed a web site that I thought might be of interest. I’ve always thought that the lucky fellow licking your beautiful box was at somewhat of a strain by having to raise up. Pillows work, but they are not always at just the right height. Here is a product for $50 or $60 dollars that might help with that problem. It’s made to support your neck if you put it over your head, but who would to do that when you could place it beneath some great furniture and elevate your head to just the right position to enjoy a delicacy. http://www.necksolutions.com/neck-traction-collar.html

Let me know what you think. I’m always thinking of you and the furniture and trying to come up with new ideas. Thanks *****

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The above e-mail was sent to me by a reader. It’s nice that people have a complimentary view of me and my projects and I love to get feedback.

As to the item he is suggesting, it might be of benefit to some people who have built my queening chairs. For anyone not familiar with them, I designed them so they are at the correct height so no neck strain should ever happen. I have included (on my site and the e-book and regular book) in the directions easy math needed to accommodate the individual users head size to make it perfect for that person and comfortable. I know that other people’s designs use a head sling to support the submissives head, but I simply altered the height of the chair to render that unnecessary. I’ve never had complaints about my versions and while my husband complains about the vile and disgusting things I do to his mouth and tongue, neck strain has never been one of them.

In the sample photos included, you can see that my husband is quite flat on the floor, and is using a small throw pillow for his comfort, not to elevate his head. The height of my pussy and ass in relation to his mouth is correct and one could easily follow my alternative directions should someone want more of a smotherbox effect. And the one model has an elevated head/back support to line up my pussy to his tongue.

Vanessa

Super Bowl Cuckolding and Tim Tebow.

2012-02-05T01:45:00.001-08:00

Sadly, for me, there will be no cuckolding this Super Bowl as I am currently “bull-less”. I had hopes of reenacting a previous situation revolving around half-time and a little extra “snack” for my cuckold husband, but things did not pan out. Sucks, but there it is.

On a side, note, I don’t follow sports much but am endlessly hearing about this Tim Tebow guy and his alleged virginity: Is it possible that he is simply gay and not wanting to disclose that at this point in his life? Just a thought.

Photos above are of me and my “Big-Boy” pants. As in when I want to go out in public and be “invisible” to men, I wear these, a baggy hoodie, push my hair under a baseball cap and I look like a 12-year-old boy. They never even give me a second look. :)

Shopping Day. Bull Shopping that is.....

2012-01-31T19:38:00.000-08:00

Yes, I am such a slut. I've got that big time urge again. Its a cycle. It was warm today, so I wore a nice little summer dress with no panties. There is this cute guy working at the local "Health/Veg/Fruit" market who I think will be the next guy I cuckold my husband with. He's about 30 I guess, lean, muscular, tall and seems to have a nice bulge in his jeans so I'm assuming he has a big dick.

New guys are great. The passion of a new fling, the intensity. Seeing the look of surprise, shock even, when they hear for the first time that I want sex, and nothing else. Just fuck me and go home. They act like the found a gold mine. Its always a thrill. And most often, due to their extreme excitement the first time, I take home an extra full condom for my husband, after the new guy fills it with all that hot creamy sperm, which my husband will have to deal with.

This is all for research, you understand. After the popularity of my book "Cuckold Letters" and people are asking for another one, Part Two, I need to conduct my "research" for that project. :)

Cuckolding around the World.

2012-01-31T01:47:00.000-08:00

A reader asked me an interesting question yesterday. He was curious if Latin cultures have a higher or lower rate of cuckoldry due to a slightly elevated male dominance. Yes, some would say this is a generalization of a specific racial background, and its probably not politically correct, but...come on, I certainly have seen though the years how Hispanic males tend to "run the show".

So, anyone with any information or first person experiences regarding female domination, cuckolding etc within the Latin culture that wants to share that with me, please do. E-mail me at fetishfurniturefactory@gmail.com if you want your privacy protected.

Gratitude for Praise of My Books.

2012-01-30T03:00:00.001-08:00

I want to thank all the lovely people who have e-mailed me with endless effusive compliments for my books. It is very much appreciated.

When I debated writing the first one, I questioned if anyone would really want to read that much detail about my life. I was initially pleasantly surprised by how many did. Now I am rather astonished by the sheer numbers of readers from all four different books. As most might know, I am not a writer by trade, and do not write fiction so everything is simply my real life as it happens, often not that thrilling to me, but others seem to enjoy reading about it.
It has also been fascinating to me as I was not aware that so many people now preferred using Kindles and/or other E-Book reading devices.

Some people have asked if there will be a Part Two of "Cuckold Letters" and the answer is yes, but I'm not sure when. As there are really few new "letters" (e-mails) between us, I was not sure what format it could take. So, it will be along the lines of "The Married Years", and all that entails.

So, should you be bored and have a moment, feel free to contact me with feedback. Compliments are always welcome and should anyone care to do so, stating the same on the Amazon Book Review section would be wonderful as well. :)

With gratitude,
Vanessa

My Books and E-Books on Amazon and CreateSpace

2012-01-22T03:30:00.000-08:00

I've had several people contact me about buying my books in the regular paperback form. "CreateSpace" is a branch or division of Amazon. This is where they make the paper version of books, but it is owned by Amazon. So all sales are totally secure as its their server, their bank, and all the same terms apply.

Book Version
E-Book Version

Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts! (Regular Book)

Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts! (E-Book)

FemDom Training of Submissive Males (Regular Book)

FemDom Training of Submissive Males (E-Book)

Cuckold Letters (Regular Book)

Cuckold Letters (E-Book)

Is it in yet Cuckold? The next night.

2012-01-22T02:46:00.000-08:00

{This will only make sense if you read the first part titled "Is it in yet Cuckold"? }

So after a normal day, right after dinner "cocky" (my submissive cuckold husband) asked me if we could talk later that evening. He seemed a bit nervous and anxious, which I enjoy within a certain "framework" but would never want him to dwell in within the more normal manner. So I told him to tell me, right then, what was bothering him.

Its odd how someone can misinterpret a situation. He thought I was actually, truly, a little upset or mad at him for his pathetic performance the night before. So I reassured him that was not at the case, I'd grown used to his being Mr. Minute-Man (if even) and it was fine. He visibly relaxed and then asked, sort of sheepishly, for a second chance tonight.

So I said yes, but I wanted the "full package", meaning a massage, foreplay, oral gratification, etc before I would allow him to insert his cock inside me. He was all giddy and happy, making promises, claiming this and that, telling me his new "Holding Off System" (leave it to a guy to give holding back premature ejaculation a "Title") and so on.

So, I took a long hot bath, had him give me a wonderful full body massage with Apricot Body Oil (my favorite) and then after making him lick my ass for a while, I rolled over on my back (no queening chair this time as I was trying to allow him to act like a "man") and had him lick my pussy until I squirted and came all over his mouth and tongue.

I should mention, or I guess explain is a better word. There are (seemingly) millions of guys that want to be cuckolded by their wife. My husband truly has issues with a good deal of it and is not one of those guys. I've often mentioned the love/hate dynamic he has with this and me. His upbringing and just how he sees the traditional male-female relationship keeps him in a constant quandary with conflicting views and emotions about it. He really thinks and hopes that one day, soon, he will be able to satisfy me fully and then he can resume the role of being the manly husband and I will cease having lovers. Little does he know. :)

So after I recovered a bit from my orgasm, I asked him if he was ready, I resumed the same position as the night before, he was erect and ready, and as he approached me from behind, I spun around and told him I had just been cock teasing him and no was was he getting the chance to fuck me again so soon, as I left the room.

I've mentioned this before, there are moments where I almost feel guilty in the way I treat him sometimes. I had a quick moment of questionable emotions and reservations as I walked down the hall to the living room, but then I quickly got over it. :)

Is it in yet Cuckold?

2012-01-21T01:50:00.001-08:00

As I am somewhat between lovers again, (I think, not sure yet) earlier I decided to let my cuckold husband have sex with me.

As I've written about before, one of my greatest frustrations with him is that he comes within about 30 seconds of entering me. So as he, not unlike some other guys, has a harder time coming when wearing a condom, I insisted he put one on. It didn't really matter. I was bent over, legs spread, ass in the air and after he pushed his dick inside my pussy, I turned over one shoulder and said "Is it in yet cuckold?" and he came.

I was truly a bit aggravated, really. When I turned around I sort of grabbed/smacked at his cock and ended up dragging the condom off which I promptly slapped him in the face with and then threw it at him while charging out of the room. I noticed that some sperm had flung out and was on the side of his face.

Anyhow, I used my Rabbit to masturbate and am calmer now. But still, its frustrating when he does that. No control at all.

Cuckoldry is a Crime?

2012-01-15T22:26:00.001-08:00

I just came across this. Its mind boggling how some states still have ass backwards laws on the books. So much for freedom. I hope she fights, wins, sues and this law is changed.

Reader Mail. (Reposted with Permission)

2012-01-14T01:10:00.000-08:00

{I love getting unsolicited e-mails from people. Obviously if they are complimentary, all the better. So, that's a hint,,,, Vanessa } :)

HI Vanessa,

Just wanted to send you a quick note letting you know that I have stumbled across your blog last night and that I found it, unusual. Not in a bad way, but that it is unusual for a woman, dominant or submissive, to be designing and selling instructional material for bondage furniture. Unusual in that you seem much more legit, real down to earth know what you want Femdom/Cuckolding woman. Unusual in that your confident enough to show your face and your beautiful nude body, and then to tell the world your story, wants and desires. So I started reading your blog entries only to find out that I am more intrigued by you than the furniture.

As I read through some of the entries I began to believe that your the kind of woman that most men want in a cuckolding relationship. I think I was immediately hooked with the first entry that I read. I agree with you when it comes to despising the so called want a be dommes that prevail on the internet theses days. Pro-dommes, phone sex operators, web cam operators, and the lowest of all, "money dommes", can't even begin to understand what really makes a man desire to submit to a dominant woman in a long term Femdom/Cuckold relationship.

For me, it won't work without a certain amount of sexual involvement and teasing between me and my wife, after all that is how all of this started for us in the first place. Sexual desire drives me. I have all of those other dommes in one woman and I would suspect that your just about the same way she is. My wife is my pro-domme, she reads me like a book and can tell exactly what it is I need before I have a chance to express it. We have phone sex constantly, it is her way of teasing me with what I might get for doing something special for her. I like doing the dishes, the cooking, washing laundry, mopping the floors, all while I am nude, chastity device swinging in the breeze, with her sitting on the couch pointing out my mistakes as I make them. I do all of this just so that I get my prize when I am done, never knowing what that prize might be. She is my web cam operator as she will send me quick little videos just so she can tease me. And above all else she is my money domme as she controls all of the house hold money. I get my weekly allowance for gas, lunches, etc. But my wife has the remainder of the money do pay the bills and then spend on herself, I have to ask for and then earn the extra money for the things that I want.

I don't need any other lady doing all of that for me. But with out the sexual aspect of the relationship between the two of us, cuckolding won't work. I have my needs also and we both need to be satisfied or it has the potential to become something less for me. When that happens we have friction and that dampens everything. She is free to have sex but we draw the line there just like you sound like you are doing. Keep it at sex only, no personal relationships outside of that and it works. She gets hers, and I get mine from her.

I find you to be a very attractive woman and I can understand why your bull would want more from you. But keeping it at a sex only relationship is your best choice in my opinion. When the sex becomes some what more than that, lets say dinner occasionally or an evening out, it will start gnawing into the personal relationship and the time spent together between the wife and the cuckold. It was at this point, that I felt that she was cheating on me. NO man is beyond feelings of jealousy when this happens, especially married men. I know that I wasn't.

I also like the fact that you keep your pubic hair and that you prefer it to be trimmed. My wife prefers that she has pubic hair, which I get to trim every Saturday morning before we shower together. It keeps us connected, I love doing it and I love washing her body. She prefers me to be the shaved person in our relationship. She despises pubic hair on men, said that if hides their best feature and that they are more fun to play with that way. Besides, she loves to watch me shave mine off everyday while we are getting ready for work, sort of her power trip first thing every morning because she has me doing it for her.

Anyway, I am intrigued by you. I find you interesting but I am still learning about you. Your beautiful in or out of your clothes. So far I find you to be a cuckold's dream woman. You might just be the next biggest thing to hit the Femdom/Cuckold world!

Thank you for the lovely letter. I appreciate the compliments and your perspective. Your wife sounds like a lovely woman and I hope/assume you are aware of that and make her happy and satisfied.

D.

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D.,

Thank you for the lovely letter. I appreciate the compliments and your perspective. Your wife sounds like a lovely woman and I hope/assume you are aware of that and make her happy and satisfied. I would love to post your letter on my blog, with your permission and your identity concealed if you desire?

Vanessa

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Vanessa,

You may post my letter on your blog if you so desire. I would appreciate it if you were to leave my name off of it though.

As I said, I am intrigued by you and now your writings. I had the opportunity to read some more of your post this afternoon and I firmly believe that you are a special kind of woman. A cuckolds wife. Your husband should consider himself to be a very lucky cuckold.

I am well aware that my wife is a very special woman, that is why I am still with her. Like the old saying goes, it takes two to make a pair. It takes a special kind of woman to make a cuckoldress and an equally special kind of man to stay with her. My opinion of course. I am sure that you have your own.

D.

Realism in FemDom and Online Persona's.

2012-01-10T18:53:00.000-08:00

I do what I do because I enjoy it. I often get requests from people where they would like me to do "X" on my website, or clips, or a book etc. I don't do that. I have never catered to other people's fantasies and don't make custom "whatever" for others fantasies.

While I do share much of my life with others online through my website/books/blogs etc, it's just what happens in my everyday real life. I'm not a webcam chick, not an online dominatrix (nor in person) and am not for hire. Of course this may be one of the reasons why I have occasionally displayed as certain amount of "hostility" towards pro-dommes, phone sex dommes, money dommes, etc.

This is an important part of my life and its hard for some people to differentiate that not every woman online who is dominant is there for the viewers pleasure or demands. In reality I have no problem with those that make a living off of pro-domination, I just wish they would stop pretending that their interest is in anything other than the financial aspect. It confused some people and blurs the lines between what is real, to me, female domination my way, and what they see online as being "real" meaning every cuckold sub wears panties, has a one inch dick, takes it up the ass with a strapon, lives in a box behind the garage etc.

So please guys, stop e-mailing me and asking me to do custom videos, or to write you stories-made-to-order, or offering me money for webcam, or to sell my "worn" panties, or to meet you for an exchange of cash for facesitting and ball punching, or anything else. It is not going to happen. :)

Free Sloppy Wet Pussy. (No takers?)

2012-01-07T02:59:00.001-08:00

Well it looks like I may have to go off for the great "New Year Bull Hunting" excursion, again.

My current (Nick) is sort of letting me down as far as regularly providing me with cock, plus he is getting sort of too clingy and emotional.

Its bizarre to me how guys spend most of their life trying to find the somewhat elusive "No Strings Attached" piece of ass, and then when its offered up, most, for whatever reason, can't produce what they claim. Meaning, cock with no other entanglements. I mean I get that men in America have been pussy whipped/bitch slapped by Hallmark, the "dating industry", their mothers, exes and whatever else into thinking that they have to provide "romance" before/with/during/after sex. But that's not what I am looking for in a lover. I get that from my husband.

I don't want some guy showing up at midnight when I am wearing panties, heels and nothing else waiting to be bent over,,,, when he walks in to bring flowers and a box of chocolates. That's for conventional dating. A Bull should walk in with his dick swinging, do his job, fuck me, and get the hell out. Right? Right? Right,,,, I think.

I mean if you walked into a woman's house at midnight and she is wearing (see attached photos) do you want to start with the small talk and trying to woo her with sweet nothings in her ear? I'm already ready, primed, we did this before, the nature of our first meeting after he answered my ad was to fuck me, I don't need convincing there big boy, I'm already bent over with crotchless panties and my pussy is wet and leaking. I mean come on, take the hint slick and stick it in.

Queening and Facesitting Chair Designs of FetishFurnitureFactory.com

2012-01-05T17:53:00.000-08:00

I finished transferring the essential information from my website to this latest book. Inside is the tool and material lists, dimensions, basic directions to build any one of the five queening chair versions I've designed, plus a spanking bench.
Book Version
E-Book Version

Making of a FemDom.

2012-01-05T02:39:00.000-08:00

One of my favorite cartoons is Calvin and Hobbes, for multiple reasons. However, for the purpose of this post, we will talk about Susie Derkins, his little neighbor.

Interestingly enough, when I was a little girl, I sort of resembled Susie. And to an extent my husband looked/acted a bit like Calvin.

When little boys are around little girls they are often mean, sometimes in a playful manner, sometimes cruel. Rude comments about our bodies, pulling and yanking on pony tails and pig tails in the early years. Later years might include the above plus harsher comments about our skinny-fat asses, big or small breasts, etc. I was called every variation of "Skeeter" (mosquito bites on chest), grabbed, groped, insulted, had my bra strap snapped, whatever.

One "episode" of Calvin involves his continued harassment of Susie and at one point he asks her what possible reason she, a girl, could even have for wanting to be alive. Her reply was, she wanted to be around so that at about age 17 she could watch guys like Calvin *beg* girls like her for a date.

Then: Little boys told girls like me that we were stupid, ugly, flat, useless, weak, smelled funny, ran funny, didn't know how to "play right" and more, much, much more.

Now: Those same types of little boys (especially the submissive ones) will do just about anything if they are allowed to put their penis inside us. Lacking permission to do that, they beg to have us touch them, sit on their face, plus more, much more.

Could it be that part, one small part, of the reason that FemDoms enjoy kicking/punching a guy in the balls, spanking/caning him, planting our pussies and asses on their face is for revenge?

Paybacks a bitch, a real bitch. That bitches name is "Me" (or insert your wife, girlfriend, Mistress' name here). :)

Everyday, average, normal me.

2012-01-03T01:28:00.001-08:00

A few people have asked what I look like in the "non-fetish" type of world. It never really occurred to me that most of my photos are either nude, or "kinked up" with wigs, leather boots, heels, riding crop or whatever. Anyway, here are a few from the last year or so and with the exception of hair length, I pretty much always look the same. :)

Queening chairs.

2011-12-27T17:19:00.001-08:00

Over the last couple of years many people contacted me wanting the instructions to my queening chair designs but were not able too or not willing to join a website.

So I am putting them in book and e-book form. My question is, how detailed to make the directions? By that I mean how much of a step by step detailed accounting is required? I asked my husband and he thinks just the dimensions, tool and materials list and a basic outline would suffice. However, he is quite good with his hands (he needs to be as he is a cuckold who masturbates for sexual release) so I'm not sure he is aware that some people have less skills and abilities.

Anyone with opinions please reply or e-mail me at fetishfurniturefactory@gmail.com

Vanessa

Christmas Cuckold.

2011-12-25T11:19:00.000-08:00

While I am not usually a huge fan of holidays this Christmas worked out quite nicely,,,at least for me. I don't hate holidays per se, but simply dislike when stores, banks and gyms are closed, no mail runs etc. As I am a major night owl, if it was up to me (and it should be, lol) the world would be a "24 hour" one wherein everything is open all the time.

Some regular readers my recall my "part time, sporadic" new lover Nick (or as I call him "Nine-Inch-Nick"). So guess who I had a late night date with last night, on Christmas Eve? Oh yes, it was a nice Christmas present for me, and yes, cocky got a "present" as well.

On most occasions I don't really enjoy the stereotypical somewhat "cheesy" type of romantic settings, but this time was nice. Well at least at the beginning...

I had my husband lite a fire in our rarely used fireplace. Its a beautiful rock fireplace and of course the ambiance is lovely, but its not really energy efficient. Anyhow I turned on some Bocelli, lite some candles, had the obligatory holiday eggnog (got a tad of a hangover still) and all the trappings that would indicate a nice romantic evening spent at home during a cold winters eve with just husband and wife.

At about 9:00 or so I informed my husband, (last minute notice) that Nick was stopping by late and that I was headed for a shower and would need his assistance in a bit. I will spare you in describing his usual look of shock, sputterings of protestation, minor whining and complaining as you can probably guess.

So after my usual "cuckold date prep" routine, shower, shave my legs, body wash, having cocky apply lotion to my back, lick my ass a bit, and then ordering him what clothing articles I wanted, I just sat back on the divan and had him lick my pussy and clit until Nick arrived.

As usual, it was awesome. Nick fucked me twice (a first) over the course of about an hour and a half (two condoms of thick and creamy sperm for cocky to deal with).

The only potential downside is that he seems to be hinting at spending more time together, as in "non-fucking" time. He even mentioned spending time with his son, which is not something I can do really. Its to bad, but I have a very strict no messy entanglements beyond sex with any of my "Bullish lovers". I hope I don't have to end this due to that, but beyond that concern it was a great time,,,,for me. My husband did his usual gagging and retching as I had him lick two loads of come off of me followed by some face sitting until I had another orgasm and then punching cocky's balls while he jacks off. :)

I do have a slight hangover so think I will drink some herbal tea and lay down for a bit. My pussy feels like beat up hamburger as well, so maybe later cocky will have to soothe and lick it all better.

Bill O'Reilly Cuckolded by Cop?

2011-12-22T05:37:00.001-08:00

Wonder if he will get a nice Christmas creampie. :)

Merry Christmas, Happy Cuckolding, Merry Ballbusting, Seasons Facesitting Greetings!

2011-12-22T05:08:00.000-08:00

Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts! (Regular Book)

Squirter's Paradise: Female Ejaculation! Wet musings on owning your body's sensual gushing gifts! (E-Book)

FemDom Training of Submissive Males (Regular Book)

FemDom Training of Submissive Males (E-Book)

Cuckold Letters (Regular Book)

Cuckold Letters (E-Book)

Jealousy in Cuckolding. A plus or minus?

2011-12-18T23:47:00.001-08:00

People sometimes contact me and ask if cuckoldry is too "dangerous" for their marriage. Or often they are looking for it to be something to spice up their sex lives with the hopes that it will save a relationship that is teetering on boredom and divorce. I would never, ever advocate it for those purposes. If your relationship is in dire straits and someone thinks that "bigger/better/more/kinkier" sex is going to be the salvation, they really should think again. There are so many potential pitfalls, with jealousy being one the main one.

Lets say, for the moment, that there is "sexual jealousy" and then the more normal type of emotional jealousy. Sexual jealousy is, for me, a tool to make my husband desire me even more. It sparks his desire to please me and to try harder to satisfy me in bed. It makes a sort of competitive drive that wakes his dick and balls up where he feels a sort of "threat" to his place in my life. Think "Sperm Wars" where it is a genetic, survival instinct rather than a rational thought. So it's a win/win for me. I still cuckold him and he tries even harder to make me come. The sexual means hot dates, fucking and my lovers sperm to humiliate my husband before/during and after he eats me to orgasm :)

However, I never confuse the emotional with the sexual and in the end, I never allow him to confuse the two either. The emotional can mean arguments, divorce, bitterness and loneliness. It may work out for a small percent, but overall it's usually, eventually, a relationship killer. Cuckolding is not going to "fix" a relationship. Sorry that this seems negative to those that hope that extra cock in the house/pussy is going to turn a troubled marriage around, but that is what I believe and I always give my honest opinion. :)

Taking care of the submissive cuckold husband.

2011-12-18T23:20:00.001-08:00

A lot of people (myself included) write a great deal about all those duties and details that a sub does for his Hotwife/Mistress.

This is the opposite and is about what I do for him.

I love my husband, with all my heart, and want him to be around forever. {I mean I need him here to abuse his tongue and balls right? }

His health is important to me. While my husband is a very intelligent person, his knowledge of cooking is pretty sad. For example, when we first met I was cooking dinner for him at my home one night, I asked him to hand me some parchment paper. He started sort of laughing and asked why I would have parchment paper. He thought I meant parchment paper, like papyrus, and had no idea that there was this other substance by the same name used for baking.

Anyhow, I don’t trust him to go to the store. It’s like me if I go to the mall and pass by any shop selling shoes, but for him its Coke, doughnuts, anything red meat wise that can be grilled, frozen pizza etc,,,,,typical man food.

I love to cook and bake, love it. My husband is a Celiac so he needs a very special diet to stay healthy. So rather than buy all the so-called Gluten Free foods that are available, which are expensive and taste like cardboard, I make everything from scratch. I make pizza crusts, breads, pasta, waffles, sauces, whatever, you name it. One of my favorite gluten-free cookbooks is “Gluten Free ASAP” which can be found here or the E-Book version available here.

I recommend this book highly due to its simplicity and quick recipes, and also because the author is sort of cute and hot and a real ballbusting bitch.

Beyond that, as he is a bit of a forgetful, sort of airhead ADD type, I schedule all his doctor and dental appointments to make sure he gets to them. I usually go with him, take notes, ask the doctors questions about general health, tests, age related issues, supplements, vitamins and whatever else. For our several business ventures, I do all the banking, bill paying, etc type stuff except for what I pass off to the secretary’s and/or accountants. We have quite a few employees so the accountant does all the major tax and other boring stuff.

I get up about noon, and he gets up usually an hour or two later. So I will wake him, pour out a glass of O.J. and a mix of Cranberry/Grape plus make him an iced cafe mocha. If he arises before me, he does the same.

My main point is, while any version of service oriented submission is great, it should also be somewhat reciprocal. I want to take good care of him to help ensure that he will be around forever/as long as possible. He is good to me, good for me, how could I not appreciate that and love him for it. :)

FemDom Pussy, Cuckoldress Asshole, Wet Empty Pussy.

2011-12-17T22:14:00.001-08:00

Can you tell I am bored again? My husband is out of town, my lovers are,,,who knows where? Sitting here with a wet and willing pussy and nothing to insert into it. All I want for Christmas is a big hard cock. :)

Hirsute Vulva (aka Hairy Pussy)

2011-12-13T03:31:00.000-08:00

I’m noticing a slight trend towards more women having hair, (trimmed short but hair nonetheless) on their nether regions. The interesting thing is that many guys seems to love it, and most other women hate it and make critical comments about it. It’s odd to me that the women who have it naturally seem grossed out by it and some guys act like it’s a new-found fetish interest.

That made me wonder, trying to recall exactly when the whole “bald pussy” look/fashion style really took over? Was it 10 years? 20 years? If its been in that range of time, young guys (late teens and twenties) very well could have never seen an actual hairy pussy live and close up. Bizarre isn’t it?

As I’ve mentioned before, I trim/groom mine but don’t shave it. I used to a few times years ago but the stubble, itching, burning, hassle made it a pain so quite. And as I have also mentioned, I enjoy the way it looks and love the aspect of additional humiliation for my husband when he has to clean/lick my lovers sperm off of it. Anything to make his “job” harder, more challenging is my goal. He hates it enough as it is, but when it sort of clings to my hair, snaps back, when he has to really use his tongue to dig in and clean it up,,,,,,ummm, love that. :)

The secret world of Britain's Dominatrixes.

2011-12-11T02:48:00.001-08:00

I've always marveled at the differences between Old England and the USA and how we view sex, sexual kinks, fetish and so forth. Obviously many Puritanical Americans act very uptight when it comes to a bare bottom spanking, bondage etc, of course what they do behind closed doors is another matter. :)

Anyhow, interesting article here.

Cuckolds that can’t get no “Traction Satisfaction”.

2011-12-09T03:36:00.001-08:00

Because of my various websites/blogs etc, I come across a lot of different "sex" products. Some are decent, some,,,not so much.

As I myself have products that fall along the lines of "marital aids", as in sex furniture, Queening Chairs, facesitting stools, rimming thrones, I wish anyone else designing things nothing but the best of luck.

Having said that, I've never come across a guy in bed, a dominant guy, a submissive guy, a regular in-between "normal" guy who was not able to fuck me properly due to a lack of "traction" on the sheets. Which is why I found this so amusing.

It's no secret that I cuckold my husband. I date and fuck other men. However, the reason I fuck other men is because my husband is a cuckold, sexually inferior, a way to fast comer, (premature ejaculation) he cums within a moment of penetrating me. A device such as this, is *not* going to help him in any way so that I stop getting fucked by other men. He is just going to have to resign himself to a lifetime of being denied and eating my pussy, before and after I fuck a lover. :)

Found this cuckolding ad on Craigslist.

2011-12-04T18:45:00.001-08:00

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Pussy Access is a Privilege for Submissive men.

2011-12-01T03:26:00.000-08:00

As the title suggests, it is not a right. Dating or being married to a dominant woman does not mean an assurance to, or an entitlement of having access to the "business" between out legs. It's a privilege when you are allowed in/near our nether regions.

A submissive male should be happy when he is given the opportunity to experience his wife/girlfriend/Mistress' pussy with all five of his senses. Being up close, seeing, smelling, tasting and in some cases fucking.

Maybe she cuckolds her husband and after being filled by a superior cock from her lover, her husband is allowed or ordered to clean her up, to provide oral service to sooth her aching labia.

Maybe after she punishes or disciplines her submissive,,,,, all that exertion and sexual tension she built up doing so needs to be addressed, in whatever manner she decides. Spanking a bare bottom with a hairbrush, or a strap, or a cane can get the "juices flowing" (in more ways than one) and why should she then be deprived of an orgasm? She shouldn't.

If she engages in any form of cock and ball torture, slapping or kicking his balls, dealing with chastity belts or tease and denial, she usually will become aroused and wet and may want a cock or tongue (or both) to release that pressure.

You might notice that all the examples above tend to require a certain amount of effort on her part. When she is finished, she deserves some pampering and attention. It's the submissive's job to provide it. However, that does not always mean, in some cases never means, he should assume that she is going to spread her legs for him. Its her call, her decision, her choice.

Now, again, if she cuckolds her husband as I do, her equal or even dominant lover has access to her pussy whenever they both desire. Thats the difference see? She has taken what some males see as their "right" to get between her thighs and she's given "right" that to her lover. Think of it as a "surrogate cock" and you, the submissive have been replaced.

No real point to this message other than I often see posts/articles/porn sites or movies where the submissive male is depicted as being entitled to a good hard fuck whenever everything else is done. Not true. :)

In Support of the Occupy Movement......

2011-11-27T02:49:00.001-08:00

Looking for well qualified males to occupy *this* before I queen and facesit my cuckold husband........

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Thanksgiving Cuckolding. Fucked by lover/bull earlier tonight.

2011-11-24T02:29:00.000-08:00

I've mentioned that I've been rather busy of late with a sick family member (who is on the mend) and finishing another book. So, its been challenging to meet with Nick for any "Fuck Dates". That changed tonight.

I was not expecting hearing from him over the holiday weekend. But at sort of the last minute his mother arranged to have his son and his little cousins over for a Thanksgiving slumber party, so after dropping his son off, he called, explained, mentioned that he had a couple of hours, hint, hint. :)

I told him to come over ASAP. He did. It was awesome. Just like before. Sort of rough, slamming, pounding my pussy, intense and I squirted and came,,,hard. He did as well, blasting a huge load of come inside me (condom used, of course).

Anyhow, my husband was out doing the shopping for tomorrow (today already my time) as I had no mood for crowds in a grocery store. When he got home, there I was, roughed up, grinning, happy, and I could see in his eyes he knew immediately what had happened while he was gone. So I told him that after putting the groceries away he should hurry into his bedroom (we sleep in separate bedrooms as explained before) and that I had a "present" for him. This always makes him anxious, flustered, makes his dick hard which sort of aggravates him. Complicated to be a cuckold no doubt. :)

I told him *not* to bring his "cuckold lotion" as I call it. Its a Cocoa butter scented brand called "Queen Helene" as I love the fact that he is only allowed to masturbate with that brand. It being named with a female name and the word "Queen" in it adds a little something to his humiliation I think.

We had "story time" (written about this often before) and while I described what happened and spanked his balls, I could tell he was chafing on his dick as there was no lubricant (no cuckold lotion). I reached under the pillows and pulled out the condom filled with Nick's sperm. As it had been a couple hours or so, and it was cold, I had no intention of making him do his usual job, cleaning it up off of me with his tongue. So instead, when he was really jerking his cock in time with my details, I untied the top, and poured it out on his balls. The cold, thick and sticky fluid made his balls shrink and hide even more, and then he came all over his chest. Nice little Thanksgiving surprise for me, not so much for cocky. :)

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2011-11-21T18:14:00.001-08:00

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PhD in Dominatrixism? (Cuckolding and Chastity)

2011-11-19T18:30:00.000-08:00

I found this to be very interesting. I always love when someone, anyone dispels the myths that any woman who is sexually empowered is a ditzy blond, or a dumb brunette, a drugged up hooker etc, and is being “forced’ into her lifestyle by some overtly domineering male.

Side note, I have been out of the “loop” somewhat for a bit, sick family member and finishing another book.

Cuckoldry article on Salon.com

2011-11-08T19:16:00.001-08:00

I found this article to be somewhat interesting, even though I disagree with some of the theories and conclusions. Still, its amusing to find articles of this nature in more "mainstream" type magazines and websites.

Blueballs equal an obedient husband. :)

2011-11-06T00:47:00.000-07:00

Blueballs equal an obedient husband.
Blueballs equal an obedient husband who will lick your asshole.
Blueballs equal an obedient husband who will eat and suck your pussy and clit.
Blueballs equal an obedient husband who will tolerate a golden shower.
Blueballs equal an obedient husband who will help you prepare for a date.
Blueballs equal an obedient husband who will prime you before that date.
Blueballs equal an obedient husband who will cleanup and eat you after that date.
Blueballs equal an obedient husband. :)

When this ball busting bitch says fuck me now,,,,you better.

2011-11-06T00:40:00.000-07:00

I feel her pain. But there are better ways of demanding a good hard fucking.:)

Cheating wives and why we do it.

2011-11-03T02:13:00.001-07:00

I take issue with these types of articles. For all of my adult life whenever I read an article (in the mainstream media) on why women cheat it is always the same reasons listed in this sorry "study". Obviously many of the points listed are true, I'm not contesting that. But what I dislike is that it is still buying into the notion that we don't like sex, simply for sex. When men cheat the claims of cause are nearly universally the same, for sex. When we cheat the claims of cause are also nearly universal in that it is never about sex.

Look, when a woman is out with her lover (or simply a dating woman for that matter) and her face is pressed up against a wall, head banging on the headboard, while she rams her ass back against his pelvis, trying to coax every extra fraction of an inch of his cock into her pussy, pounding, this is not about an abusive husband or resentment or a workaholic husband. It's about sex. Raw sex. Hot, aggressive, sweating, labored breathing, maybe hair pulling and getting her ass spanked, waiting for his balls to empty and have an orgasm squirting all over his cock and thighs type of sex.

It's a lie and an insult. It implies that we are incapable of being sexual beings without it (sex) being for the purposes of satisfying some maternal/reproductive desires or some deep-seated and unresolved issues with our husband/father/mother/work or whatever other crackpot notions. What pisses me off even more is that we have enough problems trying to convince males of the falsity of this concept and we far to often have other women spewing this garbage. Why it is that we (women) can not simply let go of the chaste/virginal/asexual image that man and religion has placed on us is baffling to me.

When I "cheat/cuckold" my husband, its pure raw sex. Its fun, its thrilling, its joyful, I love it and look forward to it. But that's just me. I don't speak for all women of course which is my whole fucking point, they don't speak for me either. :)

Found a New Lover and am Cuckolding my Husband Again!

2011-10-28T02:16:00.000-07:00

For any regular readers you may already know that I have been sort of in between lovers for a brief period. This has ended, in a very wonderful way.

In addition to going to the gym, martial arts etc, I also jog quite a bit. Actually I use Kangoo Jump Boots, but whatever. So this one location that I frequent fairly often usually has a decent amount of people there. It has a walking/bike trail, soccer park, baseball diamond and so on. Anyhow, I usually get quite a few "looks" and sometimes comments. Partially based on what I am jogging in and on, maybe somewhat because of my body and looks. :)

So to try to make this brief, this guy that I had seen running a few times was there again about 5 days ago. He had this look of familiarity but I could never place him. Anyway, he was running laps and I knew he was checking me out, as was I him. When I finished and was changing shoes by my car he "just happened" to stroll by and said "Hi, you might not remember me but I am the police officer that came to your house a few years ago". (We had some hoodlum teenagers shooting BB guns at cars, garage doors, sky lites etc a few years ago, so I had called the police and they eventually all were caught and paid restitution.)

So then I was able to place him and recalled how hot he was but I'd noticed that when we first met while he was taking my report, he had a wedding band on.

Anyhow, he is now divorced, she left him, sort of abandoned their little boy and him and so he kept the house, the kid, the career and is just trying to make a good life for his son. He lives about a mile or so from my home, so we went and jogged together one afternoon, then went out for coffee and talked/flirted before he had to pick his son up from school.

So, after a few more discussions, phone calls etc, he came over yesterday and fucked me,,,perfectly. :)

He's about 6' 2" or so, very well-built, lean flat stomach, nice six-pack abs, broad shoulders, great arms, thighs and a perfect looking cock, maybe 8 inches, thick, mushroom head, big low hanging balls. He is well-groomed, but not totally metro-sexual, just as I like. He's easy-going, not your typical hard ass cop, and since the first time we met when he was answering my call for the hoodlums, has been promoted to some sort of detective so usually wears a suit, smart dresser, smart guy. In the event that anything became public, to protect his job etc, the official story is that I am estranged from my husband and planning a divorce, even though he knows the truth of course,,,, and loves it.

So he fucked me, just awesome. Perfect. Not to aggressive, but really intense. He even had this little chant right when he was cumming (that I thought was odd at first but not now) saying "I'm fucking his wife! I'm fucking his wife! over and over again when he emptied his balls inside me.

Since this was not a pre-planned event (I figured it would happen but was not sure) my husband (cocky) was not even at home and out on business. He knew nothing of it, and usually when I date/fuck other men, it's very late at night. When he came home about an hour later, big time surprise. There I was lounging on his bed, nude, freshly fucked with a smile of satisfaction. I said I needed a shower, started walking out of the room, stopped, turned and pointed at his bed. I told him that Nick had been here (I'd mentioned Nick a few times over the last couple days just to tease cocky) and that he's fucked me and left something behind. Cocky walked over to his bed, flipped back the covers and saw a used condom laying there in the center of the bed. I also had pulled off his pillow case and used it to wipe my sopping wet pussy earlier and mentioned that as well as I left the room. :)

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Cuckoldry: Filling lifes voids, or just empty pussy's?

2011-10-21T15:52:00.001-07:00

I had a slight disagreement the other day with a girlfriend. Nothing serious or bad, but we are not seeing eye to eye on my fucking other men. She is contending that my cuckolding my husband means that our marriage is not stable and that I am trying to fill a void in my life (insert "void filling" joke here). My stance is that I don't believe in the notion of ones significant other (he-she-bi-straight-gay-whatever) being the end-all be-all to fulfill ones head, heart, soul, life and in this case, also pussy.

Look, in our culture (meaning Judeo-Christian, married/monogamous) we are "taught" that our husband is going "complete" us. To begin with, in some ways, that's an insult as it implies we are not complete, or are only slightly assembled, or able to become complete without another human beings efforts and existence. Not sure I buy that theory, but even if it were true, it places a huge stress load on ourselves and each other. The other person is supposed to be your best friend, lover, soul mate, and life partner. Got it, and I agree. But then he/she is also supposed to share most of your hobbies, interests, political ideologies, dogmas, religious beliefs, views on child rearing, death, life, sex and the list goes on and on,,, forever. For some, any deviation from this mentality and supposed "diagram of marital life" means your marriage is lacking or doomed or soon will be.

I think the point of marriage (beyond reproduction obviously which I am not addressing here) is to "compliment" rather than to "complete" each other. I don't expect my husband to sit around and discuss fashion designers or hair care products with me. I'm not going to talk at length about car racing (one hobby of his) with him (I mean the cars go left in circles for two hours, whats to discuss?).
We each have our individual hobbies and private interests and of course some that are mutual. For those interests that are separate and not mutual, I share those with my girlfriends. As for my insatiable desire for cock, I get that from my lovers. :)

So, when I look at my girlfriends relationships/marriages, and those of family members, neighbors, people in the public eye, famous people, and some statistics, my marriage *seems* to be more stable and happy than many others. Yet conventional "wisdom" and ideals still tell me I am "wrong" which of course if you point this out to others (as I did to her) that just pisses them off even more. And "pissing" people off is not my intent or main agenda. I meant that does happen, but in this context, this aspect of my life the goal is not to aggravate others, but simply to get fucked good and hard whenever I want it. :)

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2011-10-17T15:50:00.000-07:00

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Pussy Denied! The Way To Get Things Done!

2011-10-16T11:45:00.000-07:00

It happens, and has happened, more often than some would think. Obviously in the more barbaric and oppressive society's (Saudi Arabia, Iran, maybe Texas, lol) this would never work as the "MenFolk" would beat, rape and/or slaughter the women. For the rest of the world, the civilized parts at least, within a few weeks we would have health care, child care, retirement and proper education quickly, lest guys blueballs started to explode from the pressure of no release.

Of course this would never work for those guys that enjoy severe tease and denial. :)

Hypnotic Cuckoldry?

2011-10-16T09:25:00.001-07:00

You gotta love a good scam right? I mean they piss you off and you want to stab them in the throat with a fork, but you still appreciate the devious nature and planning.

I come across a website the other day, I mean this one is worthy of Nigerian royalty and I'm not going to mention it as I have no intention of sending them traffic, but for only like $25 you can download via pdf directions to "hypnotize" yourself to being a better cuckold. No mention apparently of whether or not you need a wife. The best part is the following excerpt:

"The best cuckold assignment ever. be careful what you wish for you might just get it. Always begging to cum? well now you can over and over and over, penalties apply if you miss behave, compensation is required for all transgressions. Those that follow directions to a Tee will not only have a since of accomplishment but will rise in my esteem. Now do as your told or you will be punished." (sic)

God I love that, the typos, the spelling and especially,,,, you have to pay them if you break down and jack off,,,, or not lol. :)

Cuckolding – BBC – (Big Black Cock) and Race.

2011-10-09T07:08:00.000-07:00

I got another e-mail (probably the 20,000th , somewhat literally) yesterday with some guy asking me about cuckoldry and BBC. The implication being, from what many have learned online via cuckold related websites/blogs/forums/photos/movies, the melding of the pussy of a white woman and the penis of a black male is virtually the *only* way that cuckolding can happen.

I won’t even address how naive and ridiculous that assumption is, but will move on.

Here is my opinion and preferences on that topic: I largely prefer white guys to be my bulls or lovers. This is not based on the color of the guys skin, but rather cultural aspects. See, I am not a fan of the whole hip-hop, rap, baggy pants, cap on sideways, tattoos covering everything, bling-bling, “Hey baby, waz up, waz up” jargon/slang pick up lines and anyone that goes through life acting/looking/talking like this. I did date/fuck a couple of black guys many, many years ago, and it was just *whatever* type of sex, and this was long before many of the “cultural” influences I am mentioning had pervaded our society.

Ok, so we have the posers, Vanilla Ice types, Eminem, whomever, and the thousands/millions of fans that dress/walk/talk like them and none of this has to do with melanin, obviously as those guys are white. I am no more inclined to date/fuck a White/Asian/Indian/Eskimo/Italian or any other race that is into that lifestyle.

Many people will use professional sports athletes as examples of guys who they view would be great “BBC”. Obviously most athletes have great physical development, are large, muscled and many are quite attractive. However, (back to my original point) in the USA, most of them are geared towards the “street/ghetto” type of speech, dress and mannerisms which I dislike (at least from what I’ve seen and I freely admit I don’t follow much sports and pop-music).

However, using the athlete/entertainer as example I will submit that Lennox Lewis (I don’t follow boxing, but am aware of him) is one very tall and well-built black man whom I would love to fuck me. He seems gentlemanly, respectful and I would guess attentive. On the music side of the entertainment industry, Lawrence Beamen is a guy who has a gorgeous smile, is very, very well-built and is also sensitive, articulate, well-mannered and dresses well,,,, and I am willing to bet both have huge dicks.

Both of these guys grew up poor, and struggled in their fields of interest/profession, so it’s not that I have some elitist or snobbish attitude. it’s not about money, education, origin, or skin color, it’s about how one comports themself. Poor guys can be great, rich guys can be arrogant assholes of any race, the same could apply to education, looks and whatever else. I’m not really attracted to guys with really strong accents from certain southern regions, and my panty’s don’t get wet from cowboys either. And I don’t date stoner/surfer dudes either, lol.

Obviously there are millions of black males (and/or other races) that would meet my “criteria”, or level of attraction (including perhaps our President). It’s not, to me, about skin color, I would enjoy being with a black guy and yes, the BBC would be a bonus if he had it, but I have to be attracted to him, I hae to be compatible with him, I have to respect him. And as mentioned, with the current cultural aspects of many of the black males in and around “my world” there are just few that I am attracted to.

Hope that answers that question or at least clarifies my preferences and why. :)

The Human Penis

2011-10-08T04:29:00.001-07:00

I like dicks. Here are three photos of my husbands cock in various stages of excitement. Those things are strange, what they can do, how they shrink and grow. So tiny when he is unaroused, especially when I punish and humiliate him. Grows quite a bit when excited, but still not enough to satisfy me fully, which is why I feel the need to fuck other men, better men, superior men. :)

Boris Johnson (London Mayor) Cuckolding The Masses?

2011-10-07T02:46:00.000-07:00

{Disclaimer: Any regular reader will know that while I fully support cuckoldry, I believe that honesty is paramount. The cuckold husband should have the right to know of his wife's dalliances, and then either tolerate them,(even if begrudgingly or tacitly) or divorce her and move on with his life.}

I will confess to enjoying reading, to a certain extent, about the love lives of the rich, famous and powerful. Only if no major harm is done, and there is no impact on children.

Tawdry? Perhaps. But, there it is.

So I am fascinated by the Boris Johnson "goings on" over the last several years. Not only because of his alleged sexual exploits, but just a variety of roguish behavior, the type that the infamous "Maverick Sarah Palin Roguester Of The Stars" only wishes she would be brave enough to do. Oh, wait,,,,she may have. :)

Loud, obnoxious, pompous, brash yes that is Boris. Still, I have loved watching/reading his interviews and his opinions, and especially anything where he shares a panel with Christopher Hitchens.

So Boris may have cuckolded

And another controversy......

I finally let cocky fuck me. (Boring)

2011-10-03T02:55:00.000-07:00

Well, I did it. Not sure when the last time was that I did, or should I say let him do,,,me? :)

See, I am in a slight "dry spell" as far as lovers right now. Mike is endlessly out of town on business, Tom moved, others,,,,well you get the point. I run ads, and am looking, and while the offers pour in, the quality of most respondents is just not what I want. I suppose that sounds snobbish, "Hotwife Bull Snobbery"? Whatever.

Anyhow, earlier this evening I announced to him that I was having a date. He freaked a bit as he usually does. He starts asking questions, gets anxious, starts pacing around, and all these little cute mannerisms are something he is unaware he is even doing. I find some of them endearing, some sexual, (from a sadistic bitch standpoint) and some just a tad frustrating. I would have thought he would be used to my dating by now as its been several years, but I guess its just somewhat against his nature.

Anyhow I told him that the answers would be coming to him throughout the evening and he should help me prepare for my date. So I did my usual routine, bathing, shaving, hair, mani/pedi, and then had him perform a nice little analingus and oral on me from my queening chair until I orgasmed.

I put on some little jeans booty shorts, wedge sandals and a shelf camisole and acted like I was not leaving but just sort of hanging around. I knew he found this odd as it is getting slightly cold here in the evenings. He finally asked with that exasperated/resigned tone if I was leaving, and I could tell he was hoping that it had been cancelled or that the guy had flaked (still no detail on who yet) with great expectations. I told him to mind his business, tend to some laundry in the other room and gave him a light-medium slap to the balls.

A bit later he was going from room to room putting clean clothes away and I told him that my lover would be here in a few moments and that *Surprise!Surprise!* we were not leaving but I was going to get fucked by him in his own bedroom and his own bed. (I've mentioned before that when it comes to sleep, I prefer my own bed, and as I stay up late don't want to disturb him coming to bed so we have separate rooms.)

So of course he is shocked, starts complaining, protesting and even begging. He wants to know why. He wants to know if it could please-please-please be in some other room, or preferably to him not in our home at all. He wants to know if he can at least cover the bed with an old blanket and we would do it on top. I calmly shot down all his questions and suggestions with logical points. It was safer for me to fuck a guy here rather than elsewhere. It made more sense as my room is a bit of a mess. And mostly I wanted it to be in his bed to humiliate him and should any of my pussy juices leak out, and of course my lovers sperm, it would be fitting that it was not only on his bed but *in* his bed. And I told him sternly that he would *not* be allowed to wash the sheets until he had slept in them at least once.

So I go pour a glass of wine. Check a couple e-mails, text a few friends about mundane details and of course he is most likely thinking I am talking to my new lover. I did sort of walk around, he would follow from room to room and pretend like he had something important to do there but I could tell he was just stressed and curious. At one point I gave him a hug and reassured him that I loved him and that this was just something I needed to do from time to time. Of course I have a way of "accidentally" pressing or bumping his balls whenever which I do this so it just amps up his distress and excitement.

I should mention what I sometime call the "Peter-Meter". (For those from other parts of the world, in America for some reason unknown to me, a guys dick/penis is also called a "Peter", so not unlike a meter that has a thingie that goes up and down, so does a penis when aroused hence the term "Peter-Meter".) Anyhow, as usual, his dick was hard. His mind, heart, tongue and lips hate me cuckolding him, but his dick still gets hard which is what I take advantage of. :)

(This is turning into a freaking novel, sorry about that.)

At the last moment I took him by the hand and led him into his room and told him that my 'date' tonight was him. That he was going to get to fuck me.

A wide range of emotions on his part, all played out in high-speed though his facial expressions and body language. Relief, huge relief that some other man was not coming over. Thrill that he was going to be allowed to put his dick inside me. (I don't even recall how long its been, but I would imagine he would know how many months+weeks+days and maybe even hours.)

And then,,,,,,,whatever. He did his usual thing. He was behind me after I dropped my shorts and after a moment he was slamming into me so hard that I was wondering if his thighs and loins/pubic area was going to bruise my thighs and ass,,,and then he came. Immediately, right away, like he always fucking does. The first few times that his cock gets into that really good "slip-and-slide" motion and feeling after becoming lubricated with my juice, he comes. Always, every freakin time.

I was a bit upset for a moment, but than almost laughed out loud at my own little internal joke. We most likely have all heard the phrase "Wham, Bam, Thank you Ma'am" right? Well the little dicked loser actually said "Thank you Ma'am" when he was done, as that's what he has to call me when I am dominating him. Of course he then had the nerve to actually ask me if "it" was good. I replied "Was what good cocky?". I hardly even felt it and then when I finally did, it was already over.

So it truly was, literally "Wham, Bam, Thank you Ma'am".

So I expressed my displeasure to him. He wanted to do it again trying to convince me that since he had just ejaculated that if he got it hard again he would be able to last longer the second time around. I just told him that this is why he is a pathetic loser in bed and does not even deserve to ever feel my pussy around his cock ever again.

So, there it is. One example of why my 6 foot plus tall, 235 pound well built, very masculine husband with an average sized dick hardly ever gets to fuck his wife,,, and other men do. It will be months before I even let him do anything other than lick my pussy and ass again. And I will, if I find the right guy or even guys, make sure he has to lick up plenty of other men's sperm after they fuck his wife,,,hopefully right in front of him.

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Clits - Tits and Ass

2011-09-28T22:17:00.000-07:00

I am in between lovers right now (meaning no lover, not as in a threesome) and am bored. So, did some photos of myself to run with my "HotWife Seeking Cock From Bull" ads and decided to post a few. :)

Hotwife Cuckolds husband with Cop. (Story/Fantasy)

2011-09-27T02:56:00.000-07:00

{Quick disclaimer, this photo is from a news article where a state cop was fired after being videotaped having sex with this woman. I don't know all the details but if there was force, coercion, or anything untoward, he should be prosecuted.}

We are driving down a lonely road. My husband is driving and speeding. We get pulled over and the police officer points out a deserted dirt road where we should pull off and stop. He starts his usual routine, license, insurance etc. I notice he is tall, very well built and really cute,,,but also dominant and masculine. Looking really sharp in his state police officer uniform, like many of them do.

He states that proper procedure dictates that my husband (cocky) needs to be placed in the back seat of his car, but as there is some confusion as to his identity (he forgot his license) he has to be handcuffed as well. He starts writing tickets, lots of tickets at the front of his car were we are standing. He decides to search me so I am propped over the hood, legs splayed staring right into cocky's eyes through the windshield and the plexiglass barrier separating the front and back seat of the patrol car.

When he is done searching me, we chat and I start giggling, flirting and keep looking at cocky through the windshield and smiling like everything is going to be ok. After a few moments he kisses me, fondles me and I can see cocky's reaction of surprise. I drop down and undo his pants and begin sucking his dick. I grab a condom out of my purse which is on the hood, and put it on his huge dick. When I stand back up I stroke his dick a few times and sort of "heft" his balls up and down a few times to show how big they are while staring at my husband and smiling with a mocking grin. He then throws me on the hood of his patrol car and fucks me hard and fast (see photo). The car windows are cracked open a bit so cocky can hear me moaning and the sound of flesh, his balls slapping into me and on my pussy and ass.

Of course this is all being videotaped as they have those dash cams.

After he comes inside me and steps away, I squirm off the hood and sort of bowlegged walk to the backseat driver door where cocky is. I open it and tell him that I noticed when the police officer withdrew his cock, that the condom broke off and only the "base ring" was still on his dick and the rest might be inside me. I really need to get it out,,,, and all the sperm as well. So I tell him to spin sideways so his feet are facing the passenger side of the car and his head the drivers side and to lay on his back. When he does, I sort of sit/squat over his face and let the sperm start flowing out of my well fuck pussy and into his mouth.

After a moment I tell sit more solidly on his face and order him to sue his tongue to try to "dig around" in me to see of the other half of the condom is still in me. I let him know that if he finds it, to coax it to my pussy opening, then to grab it with his teeth (very carefully) and to pull it out. Once he does I take it and then kind of twist it and dip it in and out of his mouth and tell him to "tongue wash" all sides of it until its clean.

I then sit back on his face again and let the rest of the officers thick sperm ooze out of me into his mouth while listening to him smack his lips, gag, choke and groan in complaint. I come after a few moments, squirting a bit into his mouth.

At this time the officer had been watching from a few feet away and grew excited from watching. His dick was hard again, so I told him that since I had already been "exposed" to his come, from the broken condom, he might as well fuck me again.

This time I climbed about halfway inside the car so my pussy was right above cockys face, and my torso was laying on his chest. As the cop pounded my pussy from behind, doggy style, my pussy right above cocky's face and mouth, the cops balls hanging and slapping me right there, I started semi-lightly punching/slapping/spanking cocky's balls through his jeans. When the cop exploded inside me the second time, right when he withdrew his sperm and pussy juice coated cock out of me, it sort of drug along cocky's face. I then sat upright a bit and let him have a second load of thick sperm in his mouth and all over his lips and tongue, encouraging him to 'take it like a man" and to eat all of it, every single drop of that superior mans come.

Then I got out of the car, cocky got out and the officer took off the handcuffs. While I was "fixing myself" and getting things together, the cop popped the tape out of the dash cam (yea, I know that's not how it works but this is my fantasy) and hands it to cocky. Then, and this is one of the, if not *the* best part, I thank the cop and ask him when he works again so that he can pull us over and fuck me again. See, the best part? Only then does it occur to cocky that this was not a random traffic stop, I had arranged the whole thing. :)

I don't write sex stories, don't even know how so the above is perhaps quite lame as far as pace, plot and character. Of course everything in my book "Cuckold Letters" is true and not one bit is fiction as it is taken from e-mails over a couple of years that go into graphic detail of my cuckolding and dominating my husband. It can be found on any of my profiles, links, blogs and website.

A WOMAN'S POEM

2011-09-25T04:18:00.000-07:00

A WOMAN'S POEM:

Before I lay me down to sleep,
I pray for a man who's not a creep,
One who's handsome, smart and strong.
One who loves to listen long,
One who thinks before he speaks,
One who'll call, not wait for weeks.
I pray he's rich and self-employed,
And when I spend, won't be annoyed.
Pull out my chair and hold my hand.
Massage my feet and help me stand...
Oh send a king to make me queen.
A man who loves to cook and clean..
I pray this man will love no other.
And relish visits with my mother.....

A MAN'S POEM:
I pray for a deaf-mute gymnast nymphomaniac with
big tits who owns a bar on a golf course,
and loves to send me fishing and drinking. This
doesn't rhyme and I don't give a shit..

(Found online, author unknown. Vanessa)

Taking a Cock Break (Pussy is Closed for Business)

2011-09-23T02:17:00.000-07:00

That means its the "time of the month". :)

Might it be that Elizabeth Warren runs in four years for president?

I love the energy and truthful nature in which she speaks about these topics.

Patriotic Millionaires

2011-09-19T23:59:00.000-07:00

Some have seen this, but to confirm (per previous post) that not all millionaires are greedy, selfish bastards: http://patrioticmillionaires.org and of course news articles abound about this group online and via regular media sources.

Patriotism (Benjamin Franklin versus the GOP)

2011-09-18T20:33:00.000-07:00

People in modern-day politics love bragging about their patriotism as if it were a badge of honor, or maybe even their penis (yes this applies to some females as well). It’s like a pissing contest or a comparison of genitals. As in “My *Patriotism* is bigger and better than yours”!

Of course the current version of the GOP is even more likely to do this than anyone else. Many times more likely. One only has to gaze for a moment at any Fox News program, or a GOP fundraiser to see the plethora of U.S. Flags, lapel pins with U.S. Flags, bunting, brochures, ties, business cards, graphics, imagery, and of course the obligatory pro-American jingoistic chanting and ranting of U.S.A.- U.S.A.- U.S.A.

Yet when it comes time to be charitable to the masses, or time to pay taxes, suddenly many are hiding, cowering, or are protesting, crying, sniveling and calling anyone that does not agree with them a socialist, a commie, a loser, an under-employed, uneducated, ignorant moron. And they say this with hand on heart, while/and/or saluting in a ramrod stiff posture.

Lets look at a true American Patriot: Benjamin Franklin. Franklin never patented his inventions; in his autobiography he wrote, “… as we enjoy great advantages from the inventions of others, we should be glad of an opportunity to serve others by any invention of ours; and this we should do freely and generously.”

Mr. Franklin was a successful businessman. I’m sure he did well for himself financially. At the same time he could have made so much more money had he applied for patents, tried to protect his intellectual property, and corner the market on products based on his discoveries and inventions. Instead, he did exactly as his quote mentioned above states.

He knew that other people, their ideas and inventions, that came before him made his life so much easier. He wanted to extend the same offer to his contemporaries and future generations. Life has always been hard, but was especially hard in his time. No indoor plumbing, no electricity in homes, travel by horseback, carriage, steamship. He was, in this regard, a compassionate and giving gentleman who cared about his fellow countrymen and human beings. He was a Patriot.

Our generation would do well to spend time reading up on our founding fathers and see the suffering and sacrifice they made to make this the country what it. And we should *not* listen to any spoiled, elitist politician, or Cable TV pundit cry about how rough they had it, or how huge and manly their *Patriotism” is.

You want to impress others with your patriotism? Support charities. Donate time, material goods, effort and money to the homeless, to Veterans, to homeless Veterans. Donate to children that have little, or nothing. Donate, adopt, sponsor and more than anything else, get out your checkbook and pay your taxes,,,,with Patriotic pride.

Did Sarah Palin and Michelle Salahi Cuckold Their Husbands?

2011-09-17T00:09:00.000-07:00

Interesting news articles and book revelations lately pertaining to (what some people view, at least I would assume)a couple of public smoking hot wives. Perhaps now they are "HotWives" in the cuckold fetish sense? Not totally clear yet but time will tell, perhaps.

This guy that wrote the tell-all about Sarah Palin, I am guessing he has his sources for confirmation as she strikes me as one litigious mean and vindictive bitch. I mean the allegations about using cocaine, more than one "affair". I know she was purported to be single but in a serious relationship with Todd at the time she was rumored to be doing the basketball player. Pre-marital sex, eloped prior to giving birth due to her pre-marital sex. Hard to "sell" the whole conservative, Christian, virgin, abstinence agenda anymore.

The Salahi chick, well that's just sad. She needs some serious shrink/couch time with some meds. Her desire for fame is disturbing. And on that note, while he is a hell of guitar player and I have always been a Journey fan (Steve Perry only please)I have to say I've lost a tad bit of respect for Neal Schon's judgement and actions, assuming he is throwing her the bone. I mean rampant groupie sex is one thing, giving schlong to a married woman of questionable mental stability on the tour bus? Come on Neal.

Kind of a crazy and odd world when one can find more salacious kinky sex details in the regular media than what used to be in men's magazines that everyone assumed was strictly fantasy. :)

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Fuck me. Fuck me hard and often,,,,or I'll sue you.

2011-09-14T20:13:00.001-07:00

This horny lady was not kidding around when she wanted the dick right? :)

If I knew how to contact her, I would send her a copy of my book "Cuckold Letters" (yea, that's a plug, find it on my links section), just in case it might help her in the future. The article doesn't say how many times a day/week she wanted sex, but she sounds like she's got a high sex drive.

When Law Enforcement Acts Like Terrorists.

2011-09-14T01:17:00.000-07:00

This is one scary and crazy mother fucking cop. Ok, he’s technically Sheriff
Grady Judd of Polk County in Florida.

From all online news articles and resources I’ve browsed, and based on his own statements, his main goal as a Sheriff is to outlaw “smut” (his word). He’s been with the Sheriffs office since 1972. How long he has actually been the Sheriff is unknown to me. What is known is that he has shut down every adult book store, porn theater, porn shop, topless bar and adult website he can find and has made multiple arrests of people for doing anything “adult related” over his career.

He has used threats to arrest landlords that rent out space to tenants that operated adult business’s. He’s threaten to take away peoples kids as (according to him) if
they are engaging in adult entertainment, they must also be pedophiles. He’s used very questionable methods of surveillance and spent an ungodly amount of
tax payers money to ruin peoples lives for the simple act of fucking on
tape/online in photos/movies or even just a girl shaking her tits and ass in a
bar. How is this different from the Taliban? Seriously, when the far right
lunatic conservatives of the USA take it upon themselves to try to dictate and
mandate *their* “morals” based on their religious views, that sounds like a
fucking Muslim dominated theocracy to me.

What is amazing to me is that he’s never been bitch slapped by the local courts, or an appellate court, or the ACLU etc. Contrary to what this asshole thinks or believes that aligns itself with his Unga Bunga religion, that belief does not dictate how a community lives, nor does it override the US Constitution.

His arrest record along the lines of ‘porn’ seems to include a good deal of anything child related and for that I commend him and anyone. However, what adults do in the privacy of their homes, is none of his goddamn business! Its clear, according to our Bill of Rights, and Supreme Court decision that adult content is legal. Those two
examples are not some arbitrary nor confusing statement where some Barney Fife
Holy Rolling moron can usurp those decisions and rights and decide to make his
county a fucking theocracy.

I literally am so pissed that its hard to think straight or type. This started for me when I came across another case, very recent, which I am not going to mention as I don’t want to draw attention to her. Needless to say it was another female, a middle aged woman who had a very tame adult website and numbnuts Sheriff kicked in her door one early morning, arrested her and her husband, claimed possession of their computers, video and photo devices, any and all Cd’s, disks, and even old boring Playboy style magazines and are refusing to return any of it.

I can’t believe that bullshit like this still happens in the United States of America in the year 2011. This asshole should be fired, brought up on charges of abusing his position, forced into bankruptcy and I hope someone runs over him on his way home. Harsh? Yes, but then look at what he has done to others for the sake of
his misguided and totally false notions of the ‘evils of smut’ to appease his
version of the God he believes in. And lastly, where are the patriotic people
that reside in that county? Are they so afraid of him or to speak up for
themselves that they are neutered and no longer have any desire to have free
will?

This is one example of why I spend half my time fighting for the
separation of church and state. People like this douche bag set the USA, free
speech and personal autonomy back about fifty years. Ok, rant over.

Woman Dies During Botched Shibari Adventure.

2011-09-12T00:47:00.000-07:00

Shes dead and he's charged with murder. A little common sense would have been a good thing here. People need to be careful.

Links I Would Strongly Suggest.

2011-09-10T03:08:00.000-07:00

Here are some awesome blogs which are very well written. I encourage everyone to check them out and subscribe. A wealth of information, articles and links.

http://www.femdomartists.com/

http://www.bdsmromance.com/

http://www.eroticamusements.com/

http://www.fetishpopculture.com/

Cuckold Hawaiian Vacation and Female Ejaculation (Squirting)

2011-09-09T05:07:00.001-07:00

I’ve been behind on posting the last week or so. In addition to other things, I am writing another book on squirting (female ejaculation). So, if anyone has any particular questions they would like mentioned, e-mail me.

A couple of photos from my last trip to Maui. The camera I brought with me on vacation was sort of lame, had to upgrade it since then, but here are some results. I have not really culled through most photos yet. I did cuckold my husband while I was there, what a trip, it was fantastic and I will write about it one day soon.

A really great blog that I would suggest to everyone is Female Led Relationships. The blog author was very kind enough to volunteer to profile yours truly and my books. Everyone should browse though this blog as it has a *huge* amount of info and links.

Female Belgian Mayor Fucks Boyfriend In Public.

2011-09-05T23:50:00.000-07:00

Gotta love how those Europeans can get away with what comes natural. Had this been in the good old staunch USA, no doubt a resignation would have been expected and fundies would have been crying on T.V. :)

What a Deceptive Ass.

2011-09-01T22:04:00.000-07:00

Deceptive as when I view it from certain angles, it sort of disappears. Then other angles make it look ok. Guess I will just keep going with my training regime of jogging, Pilates, weights and lots of ice cream to make it grow. :)

Got Dick? Can I Have Some Dick?

2011-08-31T03:08:00.001-07:00

Melancholy?
No.
Depressed?
No.
Tired?
No.
Bored out of my fucking mind?
Yes.

I go through phases where there is no lover to be had (done, to do me?)for a variety of reasons. Running ads only frustrates me. In a bad way. Well, not a "bad" way but in a sexually bad way. I mean I run ads, get endless replies, some really lame ones, and some really long and graphic descriptions of carnal activities that make me wet. Then the photos. Oh, the photos. Cocks. Dick. Boners. Penis's (Penisises??lol)Balls. Chests, some very developed. Back muscles, arms, quads, I love well built thighs. I love a guy that has veins. Not the disgusting kind from being a junky or whatever, but rather those that imply being well built and lean. Veins that run down their bellies, almost like "arrows" pointing the direction to a very large and heavy cock. With big balls. Heavy balls. Balls full of sperm. For me. Made for me from their desire to want to fuck me.

And then the lies, the flakes, the no-shows. Those that don't believe me so cancel, or those that are just curious, they want to see if I am real. And when they do, they freak, they try to act tough and macho and slick. But I can see in their eyes the shriveling of their ego (and probably their balls).

A few want to bemoan how they can not find a regular girlfriend. Or how the last one broke up with them. I'm not meeting you (coffee shop/bar etc) to become your "whine-mate". I came here with the agenda of vetting you to see if you are qualified to fuck me. How did we go from my being the "Whore" to my becoming the "Madonna"? I am not your "Sister/Mother Confessoress".

So many guys (of a particular age and upbringing) seem shocked and intimated by a sexually aggressive woman. I get it, I mean I do get that society and your Sunday school teacher and your mother may have convinced you that we only want to have sex to get pregnant and only desire babies/house/white picket fence. Sure, some do, many do, maybe even most,,,,,eventually.

But when we spend a couple hours showering, pampering, shaving, tweezing, covering, hiding, teasing, using a ungodly amount of product on our faces, bodies, hair, makeup, lingerie, spend an hour selecting clothes, then changing them 15 times before going out, we are looking for some guy that wants to, desperately wants to pound our pussy. All of us. Even when we are 16 and are unsure of, or are not even trusting ourselves to 'go all the way", we are still envisioning. That's the point of the wardrobe, the "war paint" the overpriced scent/perfume,the jewelry, the mani and pedi. The Brazilian (well some do, not me) some even do anal bleaching to make their assholes more attractive for,,,,whatever,,,, anal sex or analingus? Or both?

So, could you at least act like a man occasionally and just shut up and fuck me?

I mean I love sitting on my submissive cuckolds face. Often. Sometimes nearly everyday. But after a week or two, I need a guy, a well built guy with all the right equipment and one who knows how to use it. That passion and lust and energy. The "throw me on the bed and rip my clothes off like we are 16 year old virgins" type of lust. That type of energy and sexual aggression and want and desire so when I first undo his jeans his big hard cock almost slaps me in the face and I see pre-cum leaking.

I mean Holy Fuck!
Fuck!!
Me!!!!
NOW!!!!!! :)

(Disclaimer, I am not going to proofread this so if you see any typos,,, fuck off. Or better yet, just come over and fuck me. :) )

Face sitting: Bare or Clothed?

2011-08-30T01:26:00.000-07:00

I like to think that I am able to "get" most things that happen in life and the world around me. However, one thing I am not grasping is:

I get a lot of spam (who doesn't?) and some of it is of course the obligatory porn spam. So lately I've been seeing quite a bit that is focused on facesitting, but with the women wearing clothing, as in fully dressed. Jeans, sweats, skirts and of course a variety of panties, thongs etc. I assume that the majority of these sites do this to avoid having any actual face-pussy/ass contact, which allows for the fact that if there is no actual sex exchanged for money, its not prostitution. Fine.

What I don't get is where this would be some sort of big sexual thrill for the viewers (or the participants for that matter). I mean bare pussy and/or bare ass facesitting means he can smell her essence. He can taste her. He can see all of her "parts". She can feel his lips, tongue and enjoy those sensations and have an orgasm. If this is something more in line with a female domination type of scenario or relationship, then how could one possibly ever provide proper servitude through several layers of clothing? Not to mention she might have just been sitting on a park bench where a dog pissed, of which some "sample" is left on the ass of her jeans. Or her car seat may have been covered in cat hair, etc.

"Good" gross=dirty, nasty, kinky sex. "Bad" gross is most anything other.
See what I mean? Can anyone enlighten me if I am missing something here? I mean I love a good, well trained submissive tongue in/on my pussy and/or ass, but orally worshipping the material of clothing is baffling me.

Cuckold Letters (Options)

2011-08-28T00:32:00.001-07:00

I am not a very tech savvy person. So, it was only recently brought to my attention that even though I have my book through Kindle, it can be viewed/read via others readers or devices. This is from the Kindle website: Books self-published through KDP are available for purchase on Kindle devices and Kindle apps for iPad, iPhone, iPod touch, PC, Mac, Blackberry, and Android-based devices.
So, apparently anyone can use one of those devices (plus probably others) to download and read my book Cuckold Letters. Or of course the regular old style book version available here.

Cuckxploitation. Half baked shrinks on the book bandwagon.

2011-08-25T02:47:00.000-07:00

An article from one of my other blogs.

Cuckold Hotel-Fawlty Towers-Cuckold Railroad Car

2011-08-22T02:40:00.000-07:00

This may or may not come as a surprise, but in many ways I am a romantic. Old style romance is a huge attraction to me. Of course many of my thoughts and fantasies meld old school romance with modern-day kink.

One of my favorite British comedies is Fawlty Towers (actually I love many British comedies, but for other reasons). For those that have never seen it, this post might not make much sense. For those that have, well,,,,,you will very much get it.

Sybil Fawtly is the epitome of a ball busting domineering wife. I was watching some DVD episodes earlier and sort of even semi-tuned out some of the plot and was sort of daydreaming and rewriting it, in the more X-rated version.

I love how quaint the period is. Granted modern-day appliances and accouterments are great, and I would not want to be without them. But it is still sort of neat how the show is depicted from that era. One enticement, for me, would be owning a small hotel where one had a never-ending stream of traveling businessmen. I think you see where I am going with this. :)

Sybil (me) taking care of late night "business" for the customers while Basil (cocky) is waiting upstairs in the bedroom, with the separate beds. A little extra special customer service by me (Sybil) to help ensure the guests are nice and comfy and ready to sleep, relaxed, sated, followed by some unannounced facesitting of cocky (Basil) with a special creamy treat for him. :)

She is such a bossy, demanding bitch. She verbally humiliates him. She is rude, caustic, demanding. And while the period dress/hair/wardrobe/make-up is rather odd in some ways, it's also sort of cool in that rare proper British manner. Conservative, yet sexy. She regularly "kicks" him in the shins (not good) where I regularly lightly kick cocky in the balls (very good).

I also love the notion of old-time sleeper cars for long overnight rail trips, often for many of the same reasons. Sort of the Orient Express, but with a private car. Agatha Christie wrote quite a few stories that included long train rides which I read many years ago and had the same odd stirrings and excitements.

Random well-groomed gentlemen travelers, late at night, foggy outside the windows, or better even that it was raining. After some flirting in the dining car, a few drinks then back to some guys sleeper car for some good hard fucking, and then onward to my own where my little submissive oral servant cuckold husband will be ordered to clean me up. Of course both my hotel and train car would include a queening chair and a riding crop.

Fantasy is great right? :)

Dear Abby: Cuckold-Swinging Letter.

2011-08-18T00:52:00.000-07:00

I found this letter interesting. :)

Famous Men Who May Have Been Cuckolded and Humiliated By Their Wives.

2011-08-13T20:04:00.000-07:00

I love finding little gems like this. If the "Family Jewels" are a guys balls, then do cuckolds have "little gems"? :)

Famous Cuckolds
Cuckold Collection

Cuntalingus (Cunnilingus)

2011-08-12T00:54:00.001-07:00

So when you guys are down there, “in the bush” (lol) performing the act, do you ever want to pause and ask her how many cocks have been in there?
Do you want to ask how many ejaculated inside her?
Do you want to know how many without a condom?
Do you want to know if the load of sperm was average in size, or huge?
Do you want to know if it was thick, thin, runny, pungent, clumpy or gloopy?
Do you want to know if it all ran out immediately or did it cling inside her?
Do you know?
Do you really know?
Do you want to know if some other guy (or guys) made her come more than you ever could and when you are fucking her does she dream of him or even them?
Do you really know?
Do you believe her? :)

Cuckolding (Interracial) versus Gold Diggers (Black Women)

2011-08-12T00:52:00.000-07:00

I found this to be a very interesting article and additionally as it is from the perspective of the author ,who is a black male.

The short version is that black males tend to find it easier to date white women, and as more black women become further educated they are demanding the finer things in life, and are trending towards dating rich older white guys. Young black women are dating their contemporaries less, and more and more black males are out fucking white women, (often some other guys white wife).

So what could the long-term social implications mean from this shift in dating patterns be? Something substantive should it continue longterm or is it just a brief matter of easy pussy versus easy cash?

Yes, I know the title is controversial, but I am trying to get you to read the damn article and reply right?:)

Answers to Questions about Queening Chairs.

2011-08-10T00:48:00.001-07:00

I get quite a bit of e-mail from people interested in my Queening Throne and Rimming Chair designs, so I have compiled the questions together and am posting them here.

{Q} What does it feels like to lie beneath one of these and service my Goddess?

{A} No idea as I have never done so,,,, and will never. I am told that it feels sort of warm and comfortable, secure even, for the submissive below, and of course the view is fantastic.

{Q} Will I have room to insert my fingers and frig her like I'm incapable of doing with my little dick?

{A} Not really. I designed them to be at the perfect height so that face, lips, tongue is used, and not much else. Other vendors make theirs where some sort of head sling is required, thereby placing the subs back in a "S" type configuration. Obviously that is not comfortable and just sort of silly. I guess they never figured out how to use a tape measure and to do some simple math which would allow queening chairs to not need that ridiculous apparatus.

{Q} Can she press down and smother me when it amuses her?

{Q} Yes, somewhat. Again the distance is designed so that your face is already planted deep within her pussy or ass.

{Q} How long a switch or crop will she need to be able to reign blows down on my thighs and package without having to lean forward?

{A} A standard crop is about three-foot long and is what I use. Of course anything a foot or even two longer would work just as well. Maybe a longer one is needed to reach the balls of a much taller guy,,,,, or one with a shorter dick. :)

As you may have noticed, one model that I designed is made so that the sub can face either direction. This enables the Domme to force more "tongue focus" on either her ass or pussy, depending on what she is desiring most at that moment.

The whole point is to achieve maximum pleasure of her, and to totally humiliate, use and abuse him and his entire face. Especially for those of us that squirt/ejaculate, such as yours truly. :) www.fetishfurniturefactory.com

This Just In: Porn is Good For You. (Scientific American Study)

2011-08-09T03:18:00.001-07:00

As if those of us with a bit of common sense didn’t already know this (she said as she uploaded some porn to her website).

Possible New Bull/Lover. (Coffee Date/Interview Tomorrow.)

2011-08-07T02:44:00.001-07:00

Does my pussy look fat in these jeans? :)

My Private Movies (Facesitting, Queening, Ballbusting etc).

2011-08-06T03:20:00.000-07:00

As many people have requested that I reload some of my personal movies on my site www.fetishfurniturefactory.com I have done so again. So, inside the members section are my private movies of me masturbating and squirting, ballbusting, ball kicking and slapping, forced ass worship, queening, face sitting, analingus, verbal humiliation and squirting all over my husbands face and his little pathetic cuckold balls.

In addition to the above, of course are the directions and instructions for building my queening chair and rimming chair designs.

Vanessa

Cuckold Related Sites-Books-Blogs

2011-08-05T04:37:00.001-07:00

Should anyone unaware be curious, I was interviewed for a book awhile back by Clinical Psychologist David Ley whose book is Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them.

Another very lovely Female Dominant Lady (whom I know personally) that was also profiled in the book is Mrs. Emma Kelly and she also is the author of her own book.

I would highly recommend visiting Mrs. Kelly's site/blog/book. The book via David Ley, well, it has mixed reviews and I have a few issues with him and the finished product but will leave the reader to decide for her/him self. :)

Enrique Iglesias has a Small Penis. (Potential Cuckold?)

2011-08-04T02:12:00.000-07:00

What a disappointment this must be for his many adoring female fans (and a few gay guys as well). Imagine it, a nice hot evening, cozy, romantic, a few glasses of Merlot after a nice dinner, Enrique, tall dark and handsome, intelligent, rich, drops trou and,,,,,mini-sized man.

At the same time, I'm sure many guys would love to act the role of bull in a cuckold relationship with his girlfriend, he's been dating Anna Kournikova for many years and I know many guys would love to jump and hump her body. :)

Hairy Pussy. The Bare and Naked Truth.

2011-07-30T03:27:00.002-07:00

Somewhere perhaps a decade or two back, most women (at least in the USA) started either shaving their pussy bald, or trimming it into a variety of shapes and patterns.

Obviously, she owns it and can do whatever she wants with it. I have had some comments on my own rather Hirsute pussy and same thing applies, I own it.

However, lets discuss aesthetics for a moment here. Not unlike guys that shave their heads, not all pussies look good bald. I happen to think that Michael Jordan is a good-looking guy, and looks great with the shaved head. However, depending on cranium shape, the relation of head to neck and body type, skin color, eyes, facial hair,,,,well these all contribute, or subtract to/from the finished look.

So, and with no desire to be cruel here, lets face it, not all pussies look good shaven. You have to consider the skin tone, both "inside" and out. Labia, majora and minora. Shape, the prominence of (or lack of) the mons, a variety of factors, colors, shapes and hues determine if a bald pussy looks edible or does it look like a prepubescent 12-year-old. I've seen some that look like a bomb crater and a little bit of hair around it to help conceal some aspects that would be to the owners benefit.

I'm not suggesting the Rutherford Hayes look, nor the William Taft special, nor would I recommend a fu manchu.

What made me think of this is I recently saw a clip of one of the multitudes of Kardasians giving her sister a bikini wax that resulted in a (as they called it) "beefed-up cooch." Some male, a boyfriend, husband or something mentioned this as one was applying butter (yuck) to the "Vag" of the sister (ick) on the kitchen counter (what an all American family and Please God tell me they threw the stick of butter away).

Michael Jordan looks great with a clean scalp, but he would look good with nearly anything and any hair style. Some women might have a tasty looking clean shorn pussy, but they would also look good with hair.

I like it because my lovers sperm clings to it and makes it even more challenging and humiliating for my cuckold husband to have to clean up. :)

"Ask not what you can do for your cuckold, ask what your cuckold can do for you." ~Vanessa Chaland

Hairy

2011-07-30T03:27:00.001-07:00

I Like Big Balls. She Likes Big balls. He Hates Big Balls.

2011-07-29T00:13:00.000-07:00

A police officer is offended by the artificial bull balls hanging off the bumper of some lady’s truck so her issues her a $445 ticket. Now the case is going to a jury to decide if its “obscene”.

Holy Testicles Batman the world has gone insane. The irony is that in any rural area, one can see the balls of a bull, horse, dog, cat, pig and maybe some drunk guy pissing in the bushes, and yet he is offended by plastic ones.

How much will this cost that county for the judge, jury (lost wages and travel), lights, A/C, stenographer, bailiff, insurance etc? Not to mentioned the salary of the most incompetent moronic cop the world has ever seen. Maybe he is just jealous of the size of the balls compared to his own. :)

Lecker Muschi (Sweet Pussy)

2011-07-26T23:52:00.000-07:00

I love a smartass. I love being one. I know I have an odd sense of humor, and a perverted and irreverent sense of humor. Some get it, some don’t, some might get it but prefer not to. Anyhow, to me this is hilarious.

The name of one of my corporations is Lecker Muschi. For those that don’t speak German (like the uptight city officials that accepted my business licence name/application years ago, and would have a heart attack if they did know) it translates loosely to……Delicious Pussy. :) Lecker Muschi

When "Cuckolding" is Sex Slavery.

2011-07-25T19:16:00.001-07:00

I really hate when the media uses the term cuckolding and applies to something that is not even close. Cuckoldry is when a woman has lovers of her own volition, not when she is forced to do so. That is sex slavery and those that force this on women should be either neutered or spend many years in prison where they can be forced to service and satisfy other men.

I found it amusing that the articles authors stated: "She was subjected to sex with strangers, all Caucasian, in a bid to fulfill her husband’s fetish since 2007."

As if having sex with "white men" was something to be ashamed of. :)

Republicans and Gays Agree on Penis Size Study.

2011-07-22T20:10:00.000-07:00

They both oppose it.

Could it be there is more to the story?
Double the negative impact if its a gay GOP? :)

Domination and Submission Dreams.

2011-07-22T01:08:00.000-07:00

I am not one who usually recalls most of my dreams. I sleep well, pretty solidly, few hours per night but overall pretty quiet and comfortable.

So it's rather bizarre this dream I had last night. (My "night" starts when the sun comes up and I sleep to about noon.) Anyhow, it was a sort of,,,, I guess my own version of One Thousand and One Nights. It was in a series of huge tents, the interior of which were covered with Persian carpets, rugs, blankets, chiffon drapes, wall hangings and so on. Oddly enough, the wood furniture was a mixture of brocade and even some rococo thrown in, which made no sense, but dreams rarely do.

There was a nonstop beating of drums, background, just a tempo that pulsated and pushed forward the emotion and seemed to set on fire the scents, other sounds, the smells was what one would expect from incense, fires, fabrics and a variety of foods and wines. Everyone was in Harem type clothing and everyone also was youngish, very lean and muscular, tanned, toned, sweaty and hot. Expect for many, maybe most of the women were very pregnant. The guys were all muscular and lean, in that way where they have the veins sticking out, and those veins that lead downward into their pubic hair, like arrows or a roadmap pointing out the way to the "goods".

Even though it was an orgy of sorts, no one was nude. The "complex" was like an endless stream of tents connected by passageways, sort of like hallways going from bedroom to bedroom. I was just walking around, watching other people having sex, all kinds of sex. Some people were being spanked and whipped. It seems like it was a mixture of equal parts male dominant and female dominant. Or maybe everyone were switches, hard to remember. The punishments were fast, severe and furious, very intense. No one seemed to mind, it just made things hotter.

At some points the drums would increase in speed, sort of like it was a pre-planned point in the "festivities" were it was supposed to be a simultaneous orgasm maybe? At the same time everything seemed random, as I said, anyone would step up to anyone else and dominate them. There was a great deal of thigh spanking, of course everyone had perfectly toned and well muscled thighs. People were just forcing others to lick, suck, swallow and they were fucking each others anywhere and everywhere. I don't seem to recall me taking part in anything other than just watching in fascination.

I woke up very tired, sort of foggy. I wasn't wet, my pussy felt "fat" (ask your girlfriend or wife if you need to) and that's about it. Maybe tonight will be part two. :)

Men and Hookers. Lies, Flawed Methodology and Cranky Man-Hating Bitches.

2011-07-21T20:18:00.000-07:00

Melissa Farley is at it again. Trying to cash in on her flawed and biased anti-porn and anti-hooker "studies" which she sells along with her agenda to earn a few bucks. What a slutty whore. :)

Her latest, is some really good reading, if you love comedy. The methods and conclusions she reaches make me either want to pee my panties from hilarity or punch the screen from anger. To punch or pee, that my ardent fans is the question.

My point is that with the methodology she utilized for this "study", and were I to use the same, I could "prove" that guys that went to church were more likely to engage in crimes. Or those that ate Tacos, or chewed gum, or wear caps, or that are tall, white, educated or anything else under the sun.

I hate, hate, hate when some supposedly enlightened "feminist" uses bullshit and lies to try to convince all other women in the world that they know what is best for us. I know little about her but would not be surprised if she is a granola eating, heavily medicated, San Fran man hating dyke. And lastly, it appears that no one else takes her research seriously not unlike Andrea Dworkin, Catharine MacKinnon and Judith Reisman (she who invented "erototoxins").

Look, there are many, many problems and risks with prostitution which should be taken seriously, examined and dealt with. But that means taking it seriously, not listening or giving any credibility to these crackpots who make things worse, and set "feminism" back a few decades. Ok, rant over. :)

P.S., I like other women and have no issue with lesbians, bi-sexual women (like me), but have problems with those that act/think like this gang of wackos. :)

Wendi Deng (Rupert Murdochs Wife) Dominant Ballbusting Bitch?

2011-07-21T03:38:00.000-07:00

Call me suspicious, maybe even jaded and perverted, but my experience is the more conservative and staid an older businessman is, the kinkier he usually is behind bedroom doors.
So after seeing that “face spike” that Wendi laid on the “Creampie Guy” (lol, she said creampie) the other day, the way she walks, dresses, comports herself, I suspect she may be very dominant over the old money-man. She is hotter than hell, very fit, very pretty and probably spends half her time spending his money, and the other half punching him in the balls and sitting on the old guys face.:)

E-Mail OrdersTo My Submissive Cuckold Husband.

2011-07-21T02:54:00.000-07:00

"cocky,

Next time I sit on your face, I will lay forward onto your stomach, & tease your dick close-up. If I am not licked properly, I will slap your balls......mmmmmm, that reminds me.

Just now I imagined you sitting naked on the floor against the wall, I'm bent over with my pussy pressed against your face. My face is inches away from your dick, you are licking me, making me squirt all over your face, I almost come, but you changed what you were doing, & my orgasm is delayed. I flick my finger onto your little balls, hard, & you react. As I imagined this, I got that feeling I described to you. A rush through my chest that pushes the air out of my lungs, & could be considered orgasmic, but it's all in my chest. (Like you asked about tonight. I have them often...)

Anyway, good night. Good rest will be required tomorrow, you have work to do.

Ma'am "

Raving Review of my book Cuckold Letters on Amazon.

2011-07-19T22:48:00.000-07:00

"This is the best cuckold & Femdomme literature I've ever read.

There
are a couple caveats, however.

First, you have to understand that this
is *nonfiction*.
It's not a fantasy.
It's not a story.
It's not a
dream.
It's the real thing.

Vanessa Chaland has been a relatively
well known member of the BDSM community for years. She practically invented the
modern Queening chair. Ask anyone out on FetLife. Or better yet, see her
website.

But I'm not here to review her chairs: I'm here to review her
book.

Next, you need to be patient. Editorial conventions are thrown out
the window here. This book is a collection of emails. They aren't edited for
standard grammar or spelling or sentence structure necessarily. She publishes
them as-is and I think that's great. They read exactly as what they are: emails
between lovers. I'd use a word like "versimilitude" to describe the writing
except she isn't faking anything.

So what do I love about this book? " {Full review here.}

FetishFurnitureFactory (My Site)

2011-07-17T21:16:00.000-07:00

I also, of course, would like to thank all those that have ever been a member of my site www.fetishfurniturefactory.com Hope you all are using and enjoying those Queening chairs and Rimming Stools. The multiple compliments and praise for my furniture designs is appreciated. :)

“Cuckold Letters” (My Book)

2011-07-17T21:12:00.000-07:00

I, again and again, really want to thank all those that purchased my book “Cuckold Letters”. I have been sort of overwhelmed at the response and the numbers of people who have bought and commented favorably on it. I knew that some would appreciate it, (books on most things sexual are enjoyed by many) but never expected this type of enthusiasm from so many people. Thank you. Vanessa

Cuckold Letters E-Version

Cuckold Letters Book Version

Gay Hating: Bachmann Turning it into Overdrive.

2011-07-17T00:16:00.000-07:00

Just disgusting. What a vile cretinous horrible bitch. How it is that some members of the religious right can be so hate filled is beyond me. Denying people civil rights and oppressing them while stating you are doing it out of "Christian Love" makes many want less or nothing to do with other so-called "Christians". Story Here.

Mom-Domme Milfs. Palin, Bachmann, O'Donnell?

2011-07-15T00:11:00.000-07:00

Back during the Bill Clinton heyday, many women talked about his looks and charm. Of course his sexual conquests were obviously much discussed as well, to the point of near blackmail, impeachment, possible divorce etc.

Anyhow, many women implied they were slightly more inclined to vote for him, based on his looks. Now as pathetic and scary as that is, no one can deny that appearance and charisma mean a great deal in the political world. It is, after all, a sales job.

So, my question is, how many guys might be inclined to vote for a conservative woman based on her sexual desirability? And added to that, within the fetish world, how many might be motivated by the Mom-Domme/Milf aspect?

I ask because I was in a conversation with a guy who seems to be majorly infatuated with both Palin and Bachmann. He states that he is very submissive and loves powerful and dominant acting women. He also claims to hate their politics and agendas, but I wonder if he would still love to have a woman of that type/look in office, any higher office.

We all know that the so-called “far right” are every bit as kinky and freaky as the so-called far left. The difference, from what I can tell, is that the left is more open about it and the right feels more shame and guilt (which often feeds into a fantasy). So I wonder what percent of far right guys that claim to love the domineering elements of those women secretly also love to fantasize about one of them winning a major campaign and then spending part of her day dominating, butt fucking, cuckolding or hair brush spanking her subservient employees, husband, even other women that may be submissive etc.

Or, are they only “in love” with these women’s superior and vast “intelligence”?

Michele Bachmann's anti-cuckold pledge and vow to be pure and keep sex boring.

2011-07-10T00:53:00.000-07:00

Just amazing the things people will do to appear sanctimonious with the hopes that it will appeal to a certain voting block.
Just out of spite, I am going to cuckold my husband one extra time this week, just as soon as I can find a well hung guy to come over and fuck me. :)
Article Here.

Mom-Dommes. Cuckolds. Submissive Males and Kink.

2011-07-09T02:24:00.000-07:00

Do submissive men want the typified “Mom-Domme” to assuage their fears and guilt at their sexual fantasies or enacting them?

{This is strictly a hypothetical question, no person known to me is implied.}

A guy is submissive. He is also either bisexual or bi curious or perhaps even latently homosexual, gay, queer, fag, (whatever term one wants to use depending on preferences and political correctness,,,,, or the lack of.)

He desires a dominant woman who will order him to conduct himself in such a manner or to engage in certain acts. Lets say he secretly hopes this dominant woman will take him as her submissive, and he hopes she will cuckold him.

Ah, but that’s just the beginning. He also hopes, and is driven by the desire to be her fluffer, to suck her lovers cock hard and to clean up after their fornication. Deeper still within the recesses of his kinky mind is the hopes that she will order him to eventually suck her lovers cocks to completion. And he hopes to be denied to have sex with her, and to only perform the “humiliating tasks” of giving blowjobs to her bulls.

So my question is, is he using her as a “proxy” of sorts, or is he supplanting his overt and hidden gay sexual desires by operating under the guise that she “forced” him to be gay and suck dick?

In other words, and with no desire to delve into that “icky” aspect of contemplating ones parents having sex or anything related to it, or parents, is he using her in a manner, or an abstract form via a FemDom where his ‘mother’ is authorizing his acting out his sexual fantasies?

Not sure I made sense there. :)

Insufficient Cuckold Bulls.

2011-07-07T01:57:00.000-07:00

I sometimes get mail from guys asking advice about being a "Bull", what would be expected of them, should they do this or that, how, when, where and so on.

If you feel you are qualified and eager to play the role of a bull, go for it. If you feel that you belong on the other side of the "bull fence", stay there. I only say this as I have heard many stories (legit and verified) of a situation where some guy has the urge and desire to act that part, and then can not "rise" to the task. :)

I myself had that happen once a few years ago. A guy came to my home after the usual vetting procedure (Craigslist ad, e-mail exchange, photos, phone numbers etc), walked in hard as a rock, with a huge penis, and then lost it when he fully grasped that my husband was in the other room. He had been told that many times during previous conversations but the reality of it sort of escaped him I guess. Anyhow, after he lost it, I sucked him for a moment, he got hard again, then lost it again.

I had to walk him to the door, with all me horny and unsatisfied, him with a deflated cock and an even more deflated ego. And no matter what she might say to the contrary, any and every woman feels a slight twinge of "failure" when a guy can't get/keep it up. The usual worries run through our heads, am I too fat/old/young/skinny? Am I not attractive enough? Why was he not able to "finish" his job and the act? Was it me? What did I do wrong? Even when you know it was just his own nerves at the prospect of fucking another mans wife, while that man was in the home, and my husband is sort of a large and intimidating looking guy, it still weighs on those feelings of insecurity that all women have.

It sucks for everyone involved, the hotwife and the bull. Maybe not for the cuckold husband (at least mine) as he has been "relieved" of performing certain disgusting post-coital acts.

So if any guy is not confident in his ability to do this, or might "shrink" at that all crucial moment, stay out of the "bull pen". :)

Rambling about facesitting chairs, spanking balls and cuckolding.

2011-07-02T01:05:00.000-07:00

My experiences cuckolding my husband are always great, even when things don’t go according to plan. I enjoy the freedom to explore other men, and being brutally honest about it with the man I love. This relationship was fine for me before I owned a queening chair, I still enjoyed oral service from him before and after my dates. The difference now, is that I don’t have to separate the time I take to get ready for dates from the time I get licked by my cuckold husband.

I can apply my make-up, do my hair, enjoy some coffee or a cocktail, check my email, all while I receive pleasure from my cuckold’s tongue. The chair blurs the lines that normally decide when cunnilingus starts and stops. I even converse with him during, thinking out loud about what I might wear for my date. I read emails from my lover out loud, I even chat with my lover on the phone while queening my husband.

Nothing feels like a tongue. Vibrators are great, and get me off quick, and my hand is fine when it’s all I have…..but nothing is better than a tongue to reach perfect orgasms. My cuckold husband is always available to give me oral service, as it should be, and I have the best queening chairs in the world (in my opinion). They are the best because they are designed with my preferences in mind, my comfort and the positions that I enjoy and not what some might think look good as if I was in a porn flick and the visual aspect for the viewer means everything.

My cuckold is faithful, obedient, and devoted to his tasks. He doesn’t need to be punished, but a little motivation doesn’t hurt (me at least). I find that queening stools are useful in ways that I hadn’t thought of when I first set out to build them. I love that I can have him sit in my queening throne and instead of it bringing him a feeling of power (as it does me), it gives my foot access to his pathetic little balls.

Submissives and cuckolds already want to please their lady, a queening chair you build yourself will benefit you as much as her. You will both be more comfortable, and that will mean more facesitting more often, for longer amounts of time, which is your job in life, right? No more aching knees for her, no more neck pain for you. The only parts of you that will still ache are your tongue, and your puny balls.

Think of your lady, your wife, your queen, your mistress, or cuckoldress, and what she may gain from having a custom made queening chair and a willing submissive tongue ready to use under it. She will gain more orgasms surely, but think of the other possibilities. When a woman is happy in her marriage, she is happy no matter what fate throws at her. You will often hear people say that to keep a marriage interesting, you have to try new things “in the bedroom”. Erotic sex-furniture is certainly a way to do that, but remember that your ladies reaction to new things will depend a lot on what she gets out of it.

If she has to be on her knees, or constantly supporting her hips and body weight, or feels a limb start to lose circulation, or squats too long…..I promise you she will lose interest in whatever it is very quickly. Introduce something kinky that is comfortable for her, and will aid her in reaching orgasms, and on top of all that, you will be able to say you made it with your own hands. What says love, servitude and devotion more than that?

As some readers may know I am a squirter. When I was much younger, I was embarrassed about this and would often try to avoid receiving oral sex. The fear was that some guy would think I was peeing on him, and then would laugh at me, or brag/joke/mock to his or our mutual friends. Now I am able to just lounge in total comfort and be licked and tongued until I orgasm as much as I want. And as far as the squirting goes, yes, I do often feel like I am “pissing” all over his face and tongue and love every second of it. I enjoy sitting there and watching his legs writhe around, and seeing his cock and balls jump. I often use a riding crop if facing forward and can tap or strike his cock, his balls, his inner thighs and punish/motivate him to finish his job. Ok, so I’m feeling pretty lucky and happy right now.

Vanessa

Cuckold Jealousy.

2011-06-29T02:18:00.000-07:00

I’m curious about something from the guys that are cuckolded by their wives. When she is on a date, or with another guy in bed, are you more jealous of her for being with another man, or more jealous of him for being inside your wife?

Queening thrones, facesitting chairs and those with disability’s and special requests.

2011-06-28T01:14:00.000-07:00

I’ve been receiving a lot of e-mail questions lately from people who have special issues who want to know if my queening thrones will suit their needs or can be altered to do so.

The short answer is yes. The longer answer is if you (whomever) have whatever type of special concerns, do please contact me and we can discuss it. After you have downloaded the instructions I will then try to suggest whatever details I can to help. I’ve had people who have M.S., back and knee problems, some that are SSBBW and are concerned with weight limits, structural integrity and a plethora of other questions contact me or have already built whichever model they prefer.

Others want to add some other feature or device (magazine rack, laptop table, cup holders, one couple wanted an oversize umbrella for outside use, etc) and my answer is always the same, they are easily adaptable and I will offer whatever advice I can. Vanessa

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Tease and Denial - Cuckold Humiliation - Powerful Ejaculations.

2011-06-24T01:21:00.000-07:00

I am curious if most submissive males orgasms are more intense after being teased and/or dominated? I ask as my own husbands ejaculations seem so much more intense (and more voluminous in sperm output.

I will sometimes tell cocky (my husband) to whip out his dick and to jerk off, with no warning. He usually only comes a little bit on his lower belly. When I, on very, very rare occasions allow him to come on my ass or tits, he usually does the same thing. Short, quick orgasm, very little sperm.

However, when I dominate him, he comes quite a bit more. On those days/nights when I both dominate him and cuckold him, after I am done with everything else, he shoots a massive amount of come. What I mean is this,,,,:

On those nights when I have a date, I will go through a long process of teasing and humiliating him throughout the day. He usually has to help be shower and dress and then either he drives me to my "date location" or waits at home, or rarely in the car. When I/we get home, he has to service me orally and he has to "dispose" of my lovers sperm, one way or the other. If it is fresh, I have him lick it off of me. If it is older and still tied in the condom, I will lay it on my Mons while he eats me so he has to see it. Then, after he is allowed/ordered to masturbate, he has to throw it away. His masturbation in what I call "Cuckold Story Time" in that I sit on the side of the bed and spank and beat on his ball while berating him about being inferior, how much I love my lovers cocks etc. cocky will often shoot come to his neck, sometimes even farther. A couple of times it has actually shot over his shoulder or head and a small amount will hit his pillows (how fitting, lol) or even the headboard or wall. Of course he has to clean that up as well.

Ok, so my point is that I know my own orgasms are more intense and frequent when I am dominating him, I also squirt much more, but why is it that he does when this happens. Sperm Wars theory? I was just reading one persons post about that (lovetosubmit, I think) and wonder if cuckold/wimps balls actually produce more semen and/or sperm while being cuckolded in an effort to appear, more manly and to ward off any threats of other males impregnating his wife, sort of the instinctual thing for procreation. :)

Vanessa

Porn Myths Debunked by Neuroscientists' Porn Study.

2011-06-22T02:19:00.000-07:00

"One unusual result from the research was that erotica featuring cheating wives was very popular among straight men. Ogas explained that he believed men were attracted to cheating wives due to a function biologists call a "sperm competition cue". "All across the animal kingdom, when a male sees another male mate with a female, this often triggers greater sexual arousal in the viewing male so that he might pursue sex more vigorously - and produce more sperm - than his competitor in order to increase his chances of impregnating the female," he said. "The sperm competition cue also explains why men are aroused by cuckold porn, also called cheating wife porn or cheating girlfriend porn, or about fantasies of their own wife or girlfriend cheating on them. "Though men are most definitely designed to get jealous and furious at the thought of their partner cheating on them, they can also become simultaneously aroused."

Feedback about my book "Cuckold Letters"

2011-06-20T18:29:00.001-07:00

{{From a reader of "Cuckold Letters" via e-mail.}}

"Greetings, Vanessa! Happy Monday!

I hope that you are well and feeling fine. I’ve missed corresponding with you.

THE FINAL STING

Well, I finally finished your book last night. I must say that was quite the ending. I really didn’t want your book to stop but if it didn’t end, it wouldn’t be finished and published, right? I enjoyed the book so much, and reading the opposing messages from you and cocky. I continued to feel the ‘sting’ throughout the book and the final sting last night was a strong one. You wrote cocky that you sent pictures to Ms. Sonya of yourself sucking various lovers’ cocks and that hurt me – hard. My reactions were not too strong though (aside from the ‘sting’) as I believe that as the book goes on, a person, perhaps specifically a male, just gets weary of it, worn down, and accepts it. Perhaps this is what happens also to cocky. I liked how you finally put him in his place and TOLD him that he was going to be your submissive and cuckold husband. It was never expressed so strongly before, except in these closing pages. I think you successfully shut him up. You never gave up on him also, and that’s admirable.
I will read this book again and will share with you whatever I feel during a 2nd reading.
That’s about all for now, Vanessa. I have to get ready for work (ugh!) and am running behind, as usual. Vacation is over. I pray that you have a wonderful day!"

Humbly Yours,

Jim

{{And my e-mail reply to him follows.}}

"Jim fag,

Yes, you finally got to the end, and finally got it. As you said, I eventually "wore him down" and am continuing to do so. Call it molding, training, teaching or whatever, that was my goal. To have a happy, loving and stable marital relationship, with plenty of freedom and kinky sex. Best of both worlds,,,,don't you think?

I do truly appreciate your answering my polls/questions and all the kind remarks and recommendations you've made about my book.
Your new fagboyfriend; Perhaps that will work out. I do hope he is at least somewhat dominant. I feel that you have a a great deal of fantasy notions and need someone "strong" to ensure that you follow through with them. In the case of a faggot like you, it simply means "forcing" you to suck on a lot of big thick cocks, where the guys have large low hanging balls that shoot large amounts of thick sperm."
Vanessa

{{Note about this post, I use the term "fag" in the context of a seemingly heterosexual male who is submissive enough to want to be "forced" to either be a fluffer, suck off another male or at the very least, be ordered to 'clean up" after another man has erupted in, on or near a cuckoldress. Others use the term "forced bi) No desire to disparage actual gay people is intended. For those into some versions of fetish/kink, they will get that. Vanessa}}

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Cuckold Related Scenes in Movies.

2011-06-20T01:40:00.000-07:00

I was watching an older movie earlier tonight and came across a cuckold type scene and grew curious about others from other movies. I don’t watch much TV or many movies, never have so am sort of out of the loop on how prevalent it might be.

The movie is Heist, starring Gene Hackman and good cast of others but his “wife” is played by Rebecca Pidgeon who is pretty much a hottie. Anyhow, throughout the movie she comes across like a real hardass sort of ruthless ballbusting bitch, sleeps with another guy and then leaves with him. Sort of hot,,,, if one discounts some aspects and lets their imagination run wild.